Hello! I'm creating this post as a warning for men who have ideological bends toward myself (Christianity). I did the the "right" things... I dated to marry, married my high school sweetheart at 19, bought a home before I could afford it, worked hard, and kept my vows... but, Brother, it's not worth it.

To be short, she cheated multiple times (I stayed due to my covenant before God), but I believe He intervened to remove her. She cheated, she was disrespectful, and she gaslit. At the end of the day, even when I reconciled by "duty", after 16 years, she eventually still left. I had to pay her off to leave, but I felt relieved tbh. I've already dropped 20 lbs in a week, grew my business dramatically, and have made more personal connections than I thought possible. In all honesty, Brother, she ain't worth it... If you want loyalty, get a dog. I'm sure there's good women out there, but they are the minority from what I've seen. Every married man I know has experienced their wife cheating except for 1. They aren't worth it...

Grow, get rich, serve... We are better off alone. I've never felt peace like I have without her.

God Bless.