How easy is it to seduce college women and if so what do you need to “score” most of the time

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-07-18T02:04:33+00:00

Your friend has a point.

And yes, in order to “score” you need to relax. Enjoy your time. Make new friends. That’s should be your primary goal.

Once u can do that. The scoring will come naturally. Just look for signals and don’t be stupid like me.

If a girl invites you to study when her roommates are out. She actually does not want to study but have sex. Unfortunately, I missed a lot due to not understanding these things.

And u can’t really get back those years. It’s one in life time opportunity.

TheDogelizer · 2025-07-18T15:00:07+00:00

Man, once you have game, college is like shooting fish in a barrel. College is the time to party, have sex, have fun!!

This is my experience: I am an ugly introvert. No way around it. I accepted it many years ago.

So, I focused on four things during college:

I tried my best to look the best I can look, without appearing a try-hard. Out of shape? Play a sport, or run, or go to the gym. Try to be in the best physical shape you can be. You don't have to look like Brad Pitt or Arnold Scharzenegger in his prime. But do try your best to improve. Unless you already have a hot body, then next.
Take a look a how the folks you consider winners dress like, then try to adapt that to your own style. This is going to sound sucky, but if you have to blend in a little, then do that. Don't be the metal head with black oversized shirts in gray cargo shorts surrounded by dudes with nice summer shirts and girls in sundresses. You can still give the "metal vibe" if that's your thing, but adapt it to the circumstances. Facial hair? Keep it neat. Long hair? Keep it neat. Balding? Keep it neat. The keyword is neat.
I made sure that, no matter what, I was going to have fun. In a bar, nobody is talking to me, but it's karaoke night? Fuck it, I'll sing my favorite song. I'll order my favorite drink. There's music? People are dancing? No problem! I'll dance on my own. Someone make a slick dance move? I'll say "slick move, bro!" Then move on. Girls may (or may not!) notice. If they smile or start "gravitating towards you", keep your cool and fun vibes. Instead of "hey you come here often? You single? Want a drink?" you say "Isn't this song the shit or what?!"
If girls are not interested, be friends with them regardless. Play it cool. Signal them that you're not a threat. Then they'll invite you to their parties where there will be more women. Rinse and repeat. At some point, some chick will like you.

I could say more, but I'll stop for now.

Bro, I won't say that the following has happened to me many times. Just three our four times: I've been in a room full of guys, a bunch of (women) hotties, dudes trying to compete and get the attention of said hotties, and me thinking "hm, I may or may not have a chance here but, fuck it, I'll just play pool, sing the songs if I know them, crack some jokes or laugh at the silly ones and that's it". Then one of the hotties have approached me and that night (or the next one) we hooked up. Like I said, it happened just a few times. Not every time because I'm fucking ugly. But when it happens, it's glorious!! <---- and I'm just talking about the times I decided not to do or play any games.

Good luck!

bafun13 · 2025-07-18T17:38:03+00:00

Social circles bro.

burncushlikewood · 2025-07-18T02:38:43+00:00

Too general of a question, introspectively you need to assess your strengths and weaknesses, what you need to improve to get girls, are you shy, are you good at talking, are you bold and confident. You need to do approaches around campus, socialize, exercise, and most importantly do well in university! That's what my main focus was in school. It's a great time to meet girls and make friends, I'd always chat up girls around campus, be friendly

Title	How easy is it to seduce college women and if so what do you need to “score” most of the time
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Date	July 18, 2025 1:52 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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