Is any of you in caring professions? How do you deal when woman complaints about a man?

fixingmedaybyday · 2025-07-18T16:38:23+00:00

I had to supervise someone once who no-showed, no-called for multiple days. Wrote her up with a simple “You NS/NC’d on such and such dates. As written in the handbook you must provide notification. Consider this a warning and please remember to communicate absences accordingly.” HR reviewed it and said I need to soften the tone and better explain what they did wrong and provide better training. Took 2 more revisions before they approved the write up.

LuckCheap1894 · 2025-07-21T20:57:13+00:00

I responded to a comment with that but I will also put it here : You can’t just refuse to help when it’s your job? If you can’t put your own emotions aside and do the job you are paid to do correctly, then you should just not have this job to began with? Will you be saying the same if a teacher decided that “she doesn’t believe that a guy can be bullied” so she doesn’t want to do the report and just decide to ignore what the kid said? Or a judge that thing “men are all bad parents” and therefore decide to always give the custody to the women? I think you way of thinking is exactly what everyone is trying to eliminate in this society, you want judge to look at proof and not their own personal opinion, you want the cops to go interrogated and gather the most evidences possible and not to just decide what cases they want to work on, etc. If you have a personal opinion that you are aware will make you unable to do a job correctly, then take a job where this opinion will not affect the quality of your work.

Glassyeyebrian · 2025-07-18T17:06:42+00:00

I dont have a j*b rn

musicnote22 · 2025-07-18T18:40:34+00:00

Lying* lieing isn’t a word

Upstairs_Ear4172 · 2025-07-18T16:22:59+00:00

If there is legitimate evidence that someone is lying to the professionals that you have mentioned, then it would be dealt with appropriately. Councillors, judges etc. cannot base their professional conclusion on their own personal opinion, that just opens doors for people already in a position of power to misuse their influence and they absolutely should face consequences if they did that.

We're talking about peoples lives, it should aways be evidence based, not just an intuition that someone is lying. That intuition should 100% be followed up on to build a case against the person suspected of lying but that is it

tilldeathdoiparty · 2025-07-18T18:22:34+00:00

I’m confused as to your scenario, are they claiming DV bc of the job or lying about DV since they are broke?

Most of the parties you’ve mentioned don’t have a choice regarding taking information, in the US if a citizen wants to press charges, they will proceed.

The DA will decide if there is enough evidence to proceed to trial, offer a deal or withdraw, and the judge decides once the lawyers have presented their cases.

At the end of the day, it’s not what you know, it’s what you can prove, so be weary of texts, actions and implications with the people around you, you never know when it will bite you in the ass.

Title	Is any of you in caring professions? How do you deal when woman complaints about a man?
Author	RedittPermaBan1
Upvotes	62
Comments	23
Date	July 18, 2025 4:10 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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