Looking for Tips on Nightgame (Especially Clubs)

Life-Income2986 · 2025-07-26T00:14:15+00:00

What are you trying to talk to people for on a dance floor? You'll notice the music is unsociably loud and the area is filled with one specific type of activity.

Sketchy-Turtle · 2025-07-26T00:15:12+00:00

I don't have any advice except to say that if you're coming from day game, I feel like a bar would be a better choice.

It's easier to talk inside a bar like day game. Clubs are usually loud and everything is based off body language.

letsrizz · 2025-07-26T01:52:25+00:00

Dance floor is definitely a challenge when your use to just day game approaching. It causes tky to be very sharp, loud and fun as this is particually why the girls are on the dance floor to have fun. I tend to avoid it but doesn’t mean it can’t work. If you wanna do dance floor I would recommend the following

Body language is key on the DF

You CANNOT be trying to get into her party, especially with friends around they will reject 90% of the time. You must be in your own party. This means dancing because you WANT TO dance, genuially. If you half ass this she will smell the neediness to dance with her and she will reject.

I personally am not a dancer and do not care to dance and I show her that. So when I walk up I go direct, not trying to pretend to dance or do anything I don’t feel like. I walk up, tap her smile and be loud. Same as I would at a bar or somewhere more lowkey but of course you have to be louder than the music and be a good vibe.

Be more stimulating then the chaos around her

This is what trips most guys up. It’s so loud and chaotic it’s hard to hold attention. This is why you must be

LOUD EXTREMELY PLAYFUL AND FLIRTY EXPRESSIVE AF DIRECT

Outside during day game or at a lowkey bar, the girls will be nice and allow you to be somewhat normal and chill when talking and work your magic but on the dance floor there is no room for that. You have to capture and hold her attention (at least till it hooks) so you got to be your most confidence, charastmic and carefree self, as she is on the floor to have fun! If you’re not fun, she will reject you.

Hope that helps

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-07-26T05:43:24+00:00

You can see my post I've written awhile back called "nightclub guide" something like that.

Someone took that advice and conquered their fear on approaching and started their journey in pickup, wrote a field report about it and shared it here a few days later after i published that post.

But that flow is pretty much what I did to get good at nightclubs. If you dislike the gunwitch direct approaching part, you can switch them into indirect approaches social circle style.

But its still important knowing how to physically open etc. Now i blend both, direct for women whos shooting a lot of IOIs and indirect for women who are more cold.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-07-26T17:42:47+00:00

Since you can't talk much in most clubs because of the loud music, prioritize eye contact. Talk with your eyes. If you see a woman staring at you, stare back and then smile before going for the approach.

Also try to find quieter areas of the club like a smoking area where it would be more feasible to have a quick conversation where you can hear each other.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-07-26T01:50:38+00:00

Wear earplugs. It'll protect your hearing and you'll be able to hear speech better as it attenuates much of the higher and lower frequencies out.

Title	Looking for Tips on Nightgame (Especially Clubs)
Author	Square_Positive_559
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Date	July 25, 2025 11:09 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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