Obviously redpill ideologies can be toxic at the extreme. That’s honestly the problem with the internet and even Reddit… it tends to normalize the extremes. Extremism in anything (religion, politics, working out, etc.) can be problematic. But there is some real value in the general red pill lifestyle.

What are the red pill philosophies/values you still cherish and have helped your relationships?

For me it’s:

1) be decisive. Be very clear and blatant in your desires. It’s more honest and genuine. No more people pleasing mr nice guy.

2) don’t be ashamed of being a man and having manly desires. Feminism has done a lot to shame men.

3) don’t get butthurt and whiny. Move on. Be stoic. In some ways “go your own way”

4) do guy stuff with your guy friends. Women like when you have your own life that doesn’t revolve around them entirely.

5) don’t be needy. It’s probably the most unattractive characteristic men can exhibit.

On the flip side there are two things that turned me away from redpill:

1) don’t be a dick. So much of redpill is MGTOW with no compassion or regard for their female companions. Dread game is manipulation in its rawest form. It is social engineering to obtain a goal.

2) my wife fell in love with the beta version of me. Obviously we were both young and I have matured but it was the sweet, kind, compassionate me that won her heart, not some alpha male egotistical narcissist.

Take the best from both pills and live your best authentic life!