QQ, STBXW refuses to contribute to the bills at home. She makes good money and has filed for divorce. It’ll take at least two years to get to court so we’re stuck cohabitating.

Coupled with dealing with her toxicity I end up paying “ALL” the bills. Historically they’re in my name since we first got married 20 years ago and she worked part time. She refuses to contribute.

Has anyone else dealt with this. How can I resolve it?