Funny thing for me, when this is done, my life really doesn't even change much.

MonkeyBranchBuster · 2025-08-18T07:21:37+00:00

Yeah, last 3 years I got nothing out of the marriage, so it's the same now, just with all the free time and money and no compaints and arguments.

Finally I don't have to do the impossible job of making someone else "happy".

smoot99 · 2025-08-18T03:19:51+00:00

Yeah no real changes the 5 things I use (computer, TV, coffee machine, bike, car) are in a different place but the relationship hasn't changed. Now I don't have to try to get her to stop hoarding or clean, and after things are finalized I don't have to put up with trying to manage the shopping-as-entertainment behaviors. And I get more quality time with the kids where they are not being raised by the TV!

upvotersfortruth · 2025-08-18T02:11:14+00:00

I hear this loud and clear.

dukeofthefoothills1 · 2025-08-18T01:25:53+00:00

Choosing a restaurant used to be a big debate. I suggested taking turns picking; she didn’t like that either.

Now I sometimes jump in the car without even knowing where I’m going. I end up wherever I feel like. YES!

AssistantActive9529 · 2025-08-18T00:20:35+00:00

No more having to deal with her complain about the slightest bit about the restaurant. Even if you went all out and got reservations. The food critic is outta here !!

Title	Funny thing for me, when this is done, my life really doesn't even change much.
Author	Newalltimelowe
Upvotes	37
Comments	11
Date	August 18, 2025 12:10 AM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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