i got divorced after 12 years of marriage and 16 years together

now i had to move to new city alone no wife no kids i cutoff most of the friends that we made since i don't want any connection to her my old friends are in my home town with the rest of my family and i had to take downgrade job in different city since my old job is connected to her my whole life was around her and the kids and her side of the family now i feel so alone and miss my kids i struggle financially since the divorce took every thing i had . the divorce happens due to her cheating but since the law is fucked up in my country she had the kids.