Day Game

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-08-19T04:13:46+00:00

Just talk to people. Don't overthink it.

epimpstyle · 2025-08-19T07:15:50+00:00

Is "The Natural" by Richard La Ruina? If that's the book you're talking about, you're on the right track. It's a good book containing all the basic things you need.

If it's 'The Natural' by a member of the RSD group... well, things get complicated. They'll talk about 'inner game,' and in my opinion, it's a waste of time and a bit of a brainwash. In the end, you'll realize you still don't have any idea how to talk to a woman.

It depends on what you're looking for. Are you trying to learn the concepts, theories, and methods? Or maybe you don't care about that and just need the courage to talk to a woman? Or is it a mix of both?

BrycePrestonHayes · 2025-08-19T19:29:57+00:00

Take PUA advice/books/courses with a massive grain of salt...most of them get laid a little, with average women, and sell you a lifestyle by hiring models or saying things that "sound good".

Nothing is wrong with learning to "day game", which really just means "approach women you see while doing what you normally do in your day", but you should understand WHY that time would be better spent approaching women at nighttime venues.

Women who go to bars and clubs, and specifically the ones who stay out later, are the ones who are more likely to be single and looking to meet new men.

A woman at night is making sure she does her makeup well, is dressed nicely, smells good, and has a little alcohol to loosen her up.

A woman during the day is on her way to work, or finishing her lunch break, or running errands, and is more likely to find your approaches to be an annoying interruption, as opposed to something she's hoping for.

If "night game" is not possible where you are, go somewhere where it is. I live about an hour from the fun spots, so I do my best to moderate my drinking or stay overnight with a friend.

Approaching women during the day to develop confidence with a cold approach is a great skill to learn, but it's important to know that these women are not your ideal target audience if you're looking for results.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-08-20T19:51:49+00:00

The idea is to find what's fun for you. Learn to game yourself. I can talk to a girl as long as it's fun for me. Otherwise there's no motivation and I'm a active listener at best. For example, it's fun for me to tell a girl to marry me or to play with her, or to talk about things that I care about. It's fun for me to overcome that anxiety, to prove to myself that I can talk to anyone. Find what motivates you. It doesn't matter how the girl responds. If it's not fun for you, you shouldn't do it.

LeatherDonkey3806 · 2025-08-19T21:28:45+00:00

step 1: stop using pua lingo like day game

Title	Day Game
Author	Icy_Fail_8577
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	August 19, 2025 3:21 AM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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