I’m getting ready to go through the process of getting a divorce and I was wondering what some of you did about the life insurance policy, investment account etc. that you all had if any should you have passed away while you guys were still married?

I already planned to speak to an estate planner soon, but I wanted to get a beat on what other people did. Did many of you leave your ex-wife on the insurance policy and etc? Or did you guys remove them immediately and just change the beneficiaries to just your children? And what was the motivation with the decision you guys made?

Honestly, I’m in the mindset of trying to set up a will or and/or trust to only pay out the money if me and my wife are still married when I die, if we’re divorced, I honestly don’t want to give her much of anything, but I’m probably just being bitter, considering how stressed she’s making me on a daily basis, bringing zero peace.