I feel bad for women who deep down want a soft life but media manipulated them into thinking men want another man

InevitableKiwi5776 · 2025-09-06T04:57:22+00:00

I don’t understand how her being bitchy about you paying for her dinner is supposed to illustrate how some people are worse off than you? Honestly baffling.

_FemPill_ · 2025-09-06T03:54:19+00:00

Her comment was envy for sure

LizFire · 2025-09-06T04:13:13+00:00

Should ask her to pay her part of the bill, to show how strong she is by herself. She wouldn't want to set women back would she?

No-Ad8127 · 2025-09-06T04:12:20+00:00

Women always worked for the most part. They only stopped after getting pregnant and marrying. And after the kids were old enough, they went back in the workforce.

Contrary to popular belief, a lot of women don’t have the privilege of their lives completely paid for, and it’s easy to envy those that do.

Planted_Oz · 2025-09-06T10:16:53+00:00

I would have replied that my husband also paid for the meal.

Jenneapolis · 2025-09-06T15:15:36+00:00

The sad truth is people like this aren’t really your friend. Friends support one another. She’s not doing that.

LateralThinker13 · 2025-09-08T19:39:28+00:00

So here's a funny thing: I used to believe Incels weren't a thing. That it was obvious what a man needed to do to break free of celebacy and get a girl. You know the list - dress better, confidence, lift weights, good job, etc. But it took me a while to realize why the label was actually dead on - INVOLUNTARILY celibate. As in, they're celibate and can't fix it because they're DOING everything they believe that they're supposed to (taught by BP culture) and it still isn't working.

This is because modern culture - the West since the 1960s - lives in fantasy land divorced from reality. Nothing women say is what they want; hell, most women don't know what they want. The entire West is living in BP delusion. Nowhere outside of the BP West do people believe that you can be a woman with a penis, for example. Pure insanity.

I say all of that to say this: Women have a similar phenomenon, that I call being an InSing, or Involuntarily Single (since women are the gatekeepers of sex, as men are for relationships). And its root causes are the exact same as it is for male InCels: buying into Western bluepill delusions. InSings like OP's friend have swallowed the Feminism cult wholesale, living in the delusional world where women can do it all, can be anything they want to be, and don't need men at all. And because they live in delusion, not in reality (RP), they can't get and keep a man. Or when they can, they don't respect the beta losers they find and end up dumping them themselves.

And they're INVOLUNTARILY single because, being in the Cult of Feminism smack dab in the heart of BP delusion, surrounded by a sick, delusional Western BP culture, they can't see or hear of any way out. Any contrary voice is that of misogynistic men/The Patriarchy, and thus to be ignored, not interrogated or reevaluated. All they can do is double down on what isn't working.

True introspection would help lead them out of this. But that's really, really hard to get anybody to do. Men are more likely to do it, if only because men hit rock bottom/desperation much faster than women do, as men aren't supported by society/welfare/programs like women are. When men fall, they crash, no cushion, and are forced to reevaluate/introspect. Women aren't. There are still Captain SaveAHoes out there, both institutionally and personally, to save most women from themselves. And in doing so, they damn them even further.

Visual-Working-3955 · 2025-09-06T04:43:39+00:00

Yeah they can just take third wave feminism plus out back and shoot it for all I care. My husband has greatly improved and enriched my life. I don't sweat single women. Especially single women over 25. I have a life to live and a love to foster. The women who wanted to be like men can suffer like men for all I care.

poorcupid · 2025-09-07T08:09:02+00:00

Oh she is jealous

AutoModerator · 2025-09-06T03:28:06+00:00

Title: I feel bad for women who deep down want a soft life but media manipulated them into thinking men want another man

Author SeaMuted9754

Full text: Just had an interaction with my now ex friend. She became my ex friend because she just holds to much hate in her heart. She made a nasty comment when I paid the dinner bill. “Must be nice not to pay rent” this isn’t the first time she has been rude about my relationship. She’s truly bitter. I told her after we left the restaurant why does it matter when you get a free meal.

This girl pretty much says life isn’t sunshine and rainbows for everyone. that I need to know that people are struggling but I have it easy. That I would have nothing if it weren’t for my boyfriend and ex husband. Life is about making it own your own.

She went on a whole feminist rant that apparently I am setting women back. Personally I believe she wants to be taken care of and for a man to lead her. Though she so caught up in being strong by herself that confronting what is against her beliefs has made her angry at life.

She’s just too emotionally unstable to continue hanging around her. Maybe in a year if she apologizes we can be friendly but people who only want to watch you suffer why have them around. Other friends aren’t cutting her off but they agree she needs space.

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ShameAffectionate15 · 2025-09-07T08:17:22+00:00

Crazy

EnvironmentShoddy646 · 2025-09-21T18:00:26+00:00

I love that you can say that it´s okay for a woman to have a man provide for her and that the commenters can see that. Your life, your choice. Except if you ask the "feminists".

myrrycal · 2025-09-26T02:47:59+00:00

Just got banned from r/dating for pointing out a scenario like this, glad this sub exists!

NoCauliflower2443 · 2025-09-07T08:55:36+00:00

If you have the time to think about this in such a way that it affects you, you're not happy with who you are. Also not every woman is guiding her life choices based on what men want. Men want to f*ck animals and kids. Why would I care what men want out of me? Live your life sis

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