My divorce was finalized 9/23. I’m still cleaning up the last of the financial obligations from the divorce decree, but I see the end in sight. And I really don’t know how to feel. In order to keep my house, I’m taking on almost $140k in debt plus having to pay $42k in cash. It’s such a tough pill to swallow, but I know deep down that this is the best I could have hoped for. I still struggle with trying to let go of the anger. With staying cordial with her for the kids sake. I’m taking it day by day, moment by moment. I will survive. No, I will flourish. It is now time to rebuild my life and take control of it, free from the control of a narcissist.