Title says it, mostly relates to my experiences going out with people from dating apps.

Girls in pants in sneakers would give you head in the backseat, meanwhile I’ve never had sex with anyone who showed up wearing high heels (it only happened a small handful of times as I do dive bars for first dates, but still)

I’m starting to think the girls who dress nice, wear skirts, short dresses, cleavages, sticking etc only go on dates to have the opportunity to dress up and look pretty. It would also make sense, because it’s more common among the hotter girls I get, once who definitely don’t need to put any extra effort into getting someone like me to like them.

Meanwhile it also feels like girls who are going out with intention of sleeping with you tend to think they’re doing you such a big favor by doing so, you should be beyond grateful for that regardless of how litter effort they had put into their appearance.

Can I just have it both ways? I wonder what are your thoughts/experiences on this.