Guilty of dating multiples

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ToxicM1ndfulness · 2025-12-29T22:52:09+00:00

Guilt is largely a mindset issue. In modern dating, it’s generally assumed that people are talking to multiple others unless there’s been a clear conversation about exclusivity. I don’t take issue with it unless expectations have been explicitly set.

If the guilt bothers you, honesty can relieve it, just understand that being fully transparent early on may significantly narrow your dating options. That’s the tradeoff.

OpinionThink481 · 2025-12-29T22:59:58+00:00

All’s fair in love and war.

Also, there is nothing wrong to date multiple people as long as you are upfront about it and as long as you have not reached any exclusivity deal explicitly.

ChicoBrillo · 2025-12-29T23:03:13+00:00

Leading people on is no good, I get it though, it's hard not to be selfish at times. You may like the attention your getting, or feel like if you're honest you'll get dropped and miss out on that person.

I try to manage people's expectations, if they seem like they're falling for me and I have no intention to be serious with them, I will talk to them about it, I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feelings especially if they're cool and I respect them.

People don't have a right to be mad in the beginning of dating, or if they're expecting you to conduct yourself in a way that's never been addressed.

I think in reality it varies case by case, idk about you but I tend to know when I'm doing something selfish/unethical, then it depends more on if I'm going to say fuck it and do it anyway, or if I'm going to do the right thing.

I think we should all try to do the right thing as much as possible.

Title	Guilty of dating multiples
Author	Dana_myte
Upvotes	0
Comments	5
Date	December 29, 2025 10:32 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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