How to get a girlfriend advice?

FindingE-Username · 2026-01-31T23:18:30+00:00

I would not recommend spending lots of money on dating coaches

spiciestturtle · 2026-01-31T23:48:58+00:00

You don’t need coaches, you need real social exposure.

BigKushi · 2026-01-31T23:28:47+00:00

Nah, you have to find your rythm, the way to be yourself and have fun with women/men/life, I don't think you need 20.000$ coach to get that, just challenge yourself socially.

Try stand up comedy or something similar.

TotalleeSerious · 2026-01-31T23:45:30+00:00

A few things here “I don’t have anyone to go out to bars and clubs and going out solo is extremely hard since everyone goes out in groups” .. make friends and work on your social skills

“ I did approach some women while in college but got rejected so I stopped approaching” .. don’t give up! How do u expect to meet anyone if u gave up trying?

“Should i spend 6 to 20 thousand dollars on dating coaches?” .. you can pay me $5,000 and ill be glad to be your dating coach

Back2theCouture · 2026-02-01T05:57:00+00:00

Even if you wanted to spend money, use it to get some social skills classes.

After I jumped into PUA hype years ago, I didn’t know there are classes that teach your vocal, intonation, the way you talk, your body language, even the way you walk. I hate that these kinda things are not taught in school. At least in not in public schools. I know some fancy private schools do.

snowday1129 · 2026-02-01T00:46:19+00:00

Saw your other post and just wanna let you know I’d be happy to help when I can. I’m no expert mind you but approaching women is much easier when you have a wingman.

ReindeerFun3762 · 2026-02-01T03:44:40+00:00

You can read a book. That will save you thousands. Getting a nice wardrobe and going out regularly you should find a girlfriend. Seems like dating apps just benefit women nowadays and leave men out of the equation. Prostitutes will help with your sexual needs but it's illegal in some places. I have been lonely too. Searching for Jesus helps sometimes. Life is hard.

ExoticDiscussion2047 · 2026-02-01T08:24:10+00:00

i highly recommend that you should invest programs if you have a budget because the advantages if you invest those programs is that you have already all theories and knowledge you have just make it sure those program you have invested is legit. Especially for me i am introvert person and also 24 years old male person then i have least social interaction especially it comes through women also don't have big experience about women but i have invest dating coaches that those are very legit by applying those theories and knowledge it really takes time and effort but along the process you have guide to build attraction,comfort seduction. its okay not to invest about this field but it really takes time and effort also years to become awesome through social dynamics, communication skills,emotional intelligence, social intelligence because there is no overnight success but it takes a lot hard work and observation including studying how they will response to you if you do this action or not.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2026-02-01T09:12:57+00:00

Do you have friends and a social life? If you struggle with the basics of socializing its best to focus on that first and maybe bring in a dating coach later.

Voljinzzz · 2026-02-02T11:41:21+00:00

you have autism, longterm a girl will find out, maybe its best to find one that is okay with it (honestly i think very hard) or date someone on the spectrum as well.

ParticularAccess2925 · 2026-02-02T13:50:48+00:00

My boyfriend is a shy and awkward dork. He did not believe I was interested in him for a long time when I was. I approached him first. Everything isn’t black and white and formulaic like the men on this subreddit think. If you want to up your chances of getting a woman you need to do some introspection. Do you go to therapy? You need social interaction practice without framing it around getting a woman. You need to be more comfortable interacting with people. The right person will like you regardless of neurodivergence. Do not spend money on dating coaches that is just a ploy to get you to spend money. It is not one size fits all.

HAJmolaSINGH · 2026-02-03T06:15:25+00:00

just foucs on being a interesting person, and by that i mean do things that interest you and go to social spaces of those things that interest you, if you genuinely want a girlfriend its better to find her where you would like her to be found

FearInoculumTool · 2026-02-01T03:31:00+00:00

Stop caring about getting a girlfriend and change your story .

Turbulent-Mail-5311 · 2026-02-01T03:40:55+00:00

Dm me, i’ll give you the proper guidance.

Title	How to get a girlfriend advice?
Author	trozner
Upvotes	6
Comments	24
Date	January 31, 2026 10:56 PM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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