Throwaway account, but I need as much advice as possible.

My wife and I have been together for close to 3 years now. We currently have one child and another on the way soon. Throughout our marriage, whenever she sees a social media post about purchasing a house (we currently rent), she gets very upset and shuts down on me. The most recent one may have been her tipping point and I’m unsure of what to do exactly.

I know the idea behind it seems ridiculous, but I understand where she is coming from in that regard. Once she saw the most recent post, she hunkered down and has not directly spoken to me for the past few days. She does this is front of our child and it’s really getting to me.

We had a ”talk” where she told me she is emotionally unattached to me, she just wants to co-parent and co-habitat, she doesn’t want to converse with me at all, and she no longer sees me as the person she married. She has been upset like this in the past, but not to this extent. This time is feels different and I don’t know what to do or if I should even be posting here. This reaction or comments from her only happen when she’s upset. I don’t know, I’m mentally exhausted. someone please just talk to me