She registered and takes our child to this activity, but I pay for it, so she should be receiving the messages. Picture day falls on my day with our child, but the costume is with my ex.

I’m contemplating reaching out because they want to take a class photo for the end-of-year program, and I’m fine with the photo being taken. However, I’m worried this opens a can of worms. I already pay for everything and don’t want to pay for a photo package, especially since I’m happy with the photo from last year and will take my own pictures that day.

Also, as the date approaches, would it be rude to ask her to take our child to lunch after the recital? Currently, she works every Saturday, but I am working on trying to change that.