Hi MRP community! I need some advice. I'm in a 3 year LTR and we're both early 20s.
I've been RP for a few years. I've read the sidebar and listened to many of Rian Stone's and ApexMindset's videos. I've been on 40+ first dates and I'm fit.
She's very submissive and does what I say. She likes to read and is a very smart chick. She's head over heels with me, we have great sex, and she was a virgin. She grew up in the church, but has since drifted away.
The only problem I have is her worldview. Like most women, she buys into the feminist programming. It seems like theres an impossible frame battle to win sometimes due to the state of society. It feels like I'm expecting her to be a "Manson girl" with how radically different my views are from society's. She listens to me, but we butt heads sometimes due to worldview. It makes her anxious to have a relationship with someone that has such different views from the societal norm. It makes her anxious to live as a fully feminine woman in a culture that craps on that. She's always needing lots of reassurance from me that this is an acceptable way of living. She also has some issues with opening up and fully trusting men due to what she sees online. Changing her worldview would take a lot of burden off of me in terms of how much reassuring and coaching I have to do.
Our relationship is excellent apart from this so I want her to be consuming media that will mold her more into a traditional woman who's confident in her femininity. I think she'd be much happier this way, but she feels too much societal pressure. It seems she needs strong, moral, feminine role models in order to feel like she has permission to live this way. She is willing read and watch anything I want her to.
Do y'all have any books or content you think a young 20s girl should be reading? And dont just say the Bible and cookbooks lol. I need something that will undo years of feminist programming. I basically need to teach her how to be a woman. It also needs to be fun for a woman to read, so dont reccomend The Rational Male...
What do you think about the idea of giving your chick books to read? Is this meta or is my frame trash? This has got to be super meta, right? My girl is consuming media anyway so wouldn't it be in my interest to have it suite my worldview?
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