So recently I've just been not liking dating apps anymore. I don't really get a lot of matches and it's very difficult for me. I have had some successes with decent looking white girls but I just can't seem to get the 10/10 blonde sorority girl off these apps. I've recently realized that for me to be able to get girls like this I would probably need to approach many girls like this irl and get rejected a lot before eventually finding one.

I go to a big college (45k students) and I wanted to start cold approaching. The problem is I am really struggling with doing it. I've been in this space for a while and even though I know rejection is part of the game and necessary I still feel really scared of rejection for some reason. The biggest issue is also I just don't feel like its appropriate to cold approach a girl on campus. It just feels weird to try and I never see anyone else do it. I know its in my head but whenever I walk around to class or the store I just can't get myself to actually do the approach even though I really want to do it.

A big part of this is also the fact that I'm indian. All the white guys on campus with girls like this never have to cold approach like me to meet these girls and this just makes me feel even worse about trying to approach. I just feel like not only is it seen as weird these days but most guys never have to do this to have success with women.

I'm also about to finish my 3rd year in college and I've never even talked to a girl irl that I haven't met off dating apps. I know the only way I can fix this is if I take action but I just can't get over these blockers in my head to actually do the approach. Sitting in my room typing this I know I shouldn't be afraid of rejection but for some reason whenever I'm actually next to a girl I just get completely scared. How do I get over this stuff?

Ideally I'd like to go to the clubs or bars and approach but I'm still not old enough. Also this would probably be easier if I had another guy to do this with but I don't have any friends either.