Months after D day and weeks of pleasantly living together after a period ofavoidance, the presntation mow is possible counseling. Still going to move out, but will consider counseling. is there even a point? Clearly, she will not be able to discuss a resolution with me, but it seems like if she can't really own her issues or detail what she wants then counseling is pointless.

Is this just a rouse or strategy to passify me? I love her very much and would prefer to stay married, but I don't feel like she has the bandwidth to make it work.