I think at this point I've read of how you shouldn't be too flirty or not start off too strong a couple dozen times. And really, this hasn't been an issue for me. I'm pretty bad at connecting with women online (apps), but IRL is different. I may not be amazing, but I can get the ball rolling, friendly conversation, on occasion get a date. And at the beginning it looks good. She may appear interested. But then it just dies down and they say no for a second date.

When and how do you turn up the heat while talking with a woman? How do you bring up sex without being too forward or creepy? How even get to the point of kissing?