honest recap

So I’ve been working on approaching for a while and decided to actually track this week properly.
Did around 12 cold approaches or kote i didnt count) .just went for it.

Day game (~12 approaches)
Got 2 numbers. One ghosted, one we texted a bit but nothing came of it. Had one day date i mean she asked me in hostel if i wanna go to dinner— walked around, got food, sat in a park. Good conversation, she was cool, but I went quiet at some point and the vibe died. I didnt escelate was afraid for some reason and felt friendly vibes from her. ( shoulda escelated)

Today was probably the best one. Saw two girls outside a restaurant, just went up and said I liked her dress and that her eyes were distracting. She said mine were too. She literally told me to stay one more night and sleep at their place. Had to leave for my bus to Lisbon so I said no. A French guy showed up and by the time I was leaving she was already into him. Really unfortunate lol

Night game ( i dont do a lot of it but i dont know how many approaches i did, i had more fun dancing then approaching)
Made out with one woman, touched another, and one girl was grinding on me for two full songs and I wanted to go for a kiss but just went away after 2 songs. Im not really experienced in club lol it was first time happening. Also got invited back to some milf but had to take care for some random friend i met in club cuz he was drunk. Reasons were complicated but still.

What I noticed about myself

I’m actually calm when I approach. I can hold a conversation now more since probably i socialised a lot with randoms, I started learn how go flirt a little which i started doing by some guide here which is really helpfull. But sometimes when im scared to escelate i just go silent and defensive mode which i have to work on… it just kills the vibe. Energy drops, I go quiet, and the girl feels it immediately. Every missed opportunity this week came down to that one thing.
Knowing what to do but scared to escalate or flirt — thats what i have to work on.

Numbers: 2 contacts, 1 makeout, a few good interactions + lot of socialising with randoms

Let me know what you guys think?
u/becomesharp