Game just comes naturally?

hunterpua · 2026-06-21T22:21:14+00:00

It comes more naturally for SOME.

What people fail to realize is that everyone responds to experience socializing and flirting differently.

The differences between people is more apparent when it comes to sports and exercise.

If you go to the gym, there's a small percentage of people who are in impeccable shape. Meanwhile, there are others who have been training just as long who are only in decent shape.

Likewise, in sports, the overwhelming majority of people are only at the level of playing for fun with friends and maybe some local competition here and there. A very tiny percentage go into the MLB, NFL, NBA, or become Olympians.

If you're finding that you're taking to this well and that actually gets backed up by actual results soon (i.e. Sex and relationships) then you may be one of the lucky ones who is more naturally suited for this.

Having a mental aptitude for something social isn't unheard of either. There are many examples of the children of actors going on to be successful themselves. In fact, people like Robert Downey Jr. are exponentially more successful as actors than their parents were.

So it's really not that far fetched to speculate that you inherited good socializing genes plus maybe had a well socialized upbringing too.

But like the gym, everyone can still become better versions of themselves, only the speed of improvement and the ceilings are gonna be different.

So for those who might not feel like this comes as easy or natural, it's still gonna make a difference to work on this, just make sure you're not comparing yourself to others, only compare yourself to you and be grateful for whatever strides you make.

ExtraordinaryBeetles · 2026-06-21T22:07:09+00:00

That's probably the biggest thing anybody can do to improve their game; just talk to everyone.

It calibrates you, you get a feel for the current vibe, and if you understand how to leverage other people in your social interactions at all it puts you in a position to do that. You're then playing chess with more than one piece.

Most-Famous-Wasabi · 2026-06-21T23:42:07+00:00

Every other animal the mating rites are deeply genetically coded.

Afaik, cats, chimps, giraffes and emus don't have to take some equivalent of an online course and do infield reps to get game.

Human sexuality is different only on the surface.

I reckon that learning seduction and pickup can help men access their inbuilt capacity to perform the human natural mating dance.

StepGeneral3597 · 2026-06-22T01:00:39+00:00

It doesn’t come at all naturally for me lol, just read my FRs XD I’m an autist. It’s consistency and discipline just like anything. It comes naturally once you’ve put in the reps though, like RSD Tyler said “everything in game autocorrects” (I paraphrase), that’s thousands of approaches though and working on yourself. I’ve seen pretty good results just having done around 1500 approaches though.

Jason__Hardon · 2026-06-24T02:39:55+00:00

No you practice like anything else until it becomes muscle memory. You'd think that'd be obvious. How do you get to Carnegie Hall? You practice like a motherfucker. Simple

Economy_Parsnip650 · 2026-06-21T22:17:57+00:00

Yeah immersion is a thing.

My main issue is I work a geek IT job, which means I don’t get to socialise much at work (wish I had gone into sales). So I have to put effort into warming up and stuff, and find ways to make the “warm up” as minimum as possible.

Yet if I take annual leave and go to some other city or country, I am not gonna be stuck working from home, isolated… and being social through out the day then makes talking to women a hella lot easier.

Title	Game just comes naturally?
Author	Genobs12
Upvotes	12
Comments	20
Date	June 21, 2026 10:02 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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