Daygame approaching

Terrible_Assist_1345 · 2026-05-04T12:10:45+00:00

First of all you're doing very good. Most of the people never take action.

I personally think you cannot build enough comfort and interest within 30 seconds for her to give you her number. You can test with longer conversations and see what works best for you.

It is all about the feeling you give her. People don't act on rationality. People act on feeling and emotion. Most people think giving a good feeling is giving a compliment. Compliments are common for her.

But how can you deliver a feeling that is rare? A feeling that is valuable for her?

It's about the energy you deliver. Your enthousiasm. Your happiness will make her feel happy too. She will match your energy and it'll be a feeling she rarely feels with other guys.

Railbearingmaster · 2026-05-04T12:54:28+00:00

Well done taking the step forward!

You have a lot of advantges, I would begin with not having the number as your main objective when talking to girls, because once you feel comftorable speaking to women without feeling the need to get their number, this will make it way easier getting the number.

Getting into longer interactions is key go towards 5 minutes or more, doing even 2-3 of these per session will drastically help you connect better with women.

If you know how to tease and flirt in your situations, do this, otherwise you can use, statements instead of questions, find a unique thing about her and comment about it, or make a simmilarity between her and something that amuses you.

Independent-Bad218 · 2026-05-04T13:17:49+00:00

Yes, that is too little. Attraction is like vapour, so she might like you and then forget it one hour later. In the community we call it investment, that means sharing about yourself and getting to know her. In general, here is a good resource.

ANewCleanSlate · 2026-05-04T14:54:35+00:00

Slow down and breathe. If you're asking for her number after 20 seconds, you're rushing it.

Imagine you play basketball and you're wearing a basketball t-shirt. Some guy comes up to you and says, 'Oh my god, do you play basketball', you reply 'yes', and he instantly wants to exchange numbers to make plans for you to come play at his weekly game at the YMCA. You'd be cautious and decline - you don't know this guy, you don't know his level of play, you don't know if you want to get involved in his games. The interaction just seems weird. But if he was a bit more cool about it... got into a conversation with you, asked where you play, talked about himself and where he plays, he seems funny or at least like a good guy, and he takes the time to get a feel as to whether you're looking to play some extra ball here or there. And then he says that he's looking to play more and gives you an option to join up with him to shoot some hoops... you might be into it.

OpinionThink481 · 2026-05-04T17:33:38+00:00

First we need to know one thing:

Are you trying to get numbers or are you trying to seduce women? Pick one.

haftzabaa · 2026-05-04T17:37:18+00:00

Yes for now extend to 2-3 minutes, also try to do much more than 20-30, you should work towards trying to do that much in a single session.

CoachSlyDating · 2026-05-10T19:05:04+00:00

Less questions. More observations. Longer interactions. 10 min or more. Push for insta-dates. Only go for number after a reason to hangout again has been established. For example, you both like sushi.

That fixes about half your problems. You can thank me later.

Title	Daygame approaching
Author	Genobs12
Upvotes	7
Comments	19
Date	May 4, 2026 11:52 AM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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