Girlfriend kept bragging about another guy

HumanSockPuppet · 2021-03-25T15:47:33+00:00

Go no contact. You're better off alone than being disrespected. Have some dignity.

Secret_Twitch · 2021-03-25T14:23:16+00:00

I can't next her as I don't have any female interaction right now because of online classes

Well then I guess you have to put up with any shit sandwich that she decides to serve you. She admitted to you that she was playing a game on you specifically to make you jealous. She admitted to you that she was trying to manipulate your emotions. This stuff is Female Dating Strategy 101. Jealousy is the worst of all games that can be played.

I would dump this bitch in a second and not even give her the satisfaction of closure or telling her why. You only have one option if you want to save this relationship. No contact for a week. Then when you reinitiate contact with her, tell her on no uncertain terms that if she ever tries to manipulate your emotions or to make you jealous like that again you will break up with her immediately.

You clearly have oneitis and you'd better start reading the sidebar and figure your shit out or you will end up sitting in the corner being a cuck and watching your Little Princess<sup>TM</sup> get throttled.

pmultiplyb · 2021-03-25T14:30:19+00:00

I got this once in person and I answered it with "he sounds like a cool dude" - she never spoke about him ever again and we had sex all day long. Not sure if this is the right approach but I didn't care at all.

Elatea · 2021-03-25T14:19:59+00:00

Lol bro there is only one option, she just revealed shes actually unhinged. You gotta next her bro or it will get worse

TravisScottNL · 2021-03-25T15:32:42+00:00

To all the people saying that this is a shit test , are you fucking retarded? She’s about to cuck him. “He’s handsome , he’s taller than you” is not shit testing but disrespect. Hard next immediately.

Don’t lose your self respect because you don’t have other options right know.

Edit: Next time she will show you a pic of his dick in her mouth to make you “jealous”

TheStumblingWolf · 2021-03-25T14:32:38+00:00

I was just doing this to make you jealous

She's toxic, and aware of it. Which is even more toxic.

lifeintraining · 2021-03-25T16:37:49+00:00

Start telling her about a girl at your college and how pretty she is, etc. Whether it’s true or not

p-tittyy2 · 2021-03-25T14:19:47+00:00

It was a shit test, she even acknowledged that it was a shit test, and you failed. You didn’t maintain frame but admitted that it bothered you. It’s fine that it bothered you, but never let her know. You should’ve played it off confidently and cocky. If you had frame before, it definitely took a massive hit by showing weakness. The tests are now gonna come hot and heavy to see what you’re made of. Anyway, if she’s constantly bringing up other guys to you- red flag.

mrsmiley831 · 2021-03-25T14:56:50+00:00

Obvious shit test and you failed. Your correct response should've been "Yeah, I'd do him." or simply ignore.

But the fact that she admitted to mentioning him only to cause jealousy is a huge red flag. She sounds toxic, and I would reconsider your relationship. Possibly demote her to plate status.

throwhawayyyy · 2021-03-25T14:58:21+00:00

this happened to me as well during my LTR, but not as overtly. “i was just doing this to make you jealous...”, DONT fall for this trap.

her: “he’s taller than you”

you: “ask him if he can reach the top shelf for me”

or just smile and don’t acknowledge it. keep doing what you’re doing but don’t show weakness with these tests

mabden · 2021-03-25T15:26:19+00:00

she sent me a picture of that guy and asked me what do I think of him

"You're right, he is cute. I think you should invite him over and when he's talking dirty while screwing you, I can fuck him in the ass."

"I was just doing this to make you jealous as you never show any jealousy when I tell you about other guys and that makes me feel that you don't care"

Pure fucking shit test.

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Efficient_Film_149 · 2021-03-25T15:01:16+00:00

Well... her time is up.

I would have not even responded. If a girl ever tries to make you jealous just say “you should fuck him”. Never be jealous. If my girl wants to fuck another guy I have zero hate in my heart for the dude. She’s gone, and I’m spreading my wings again.

Tambamwham · 2021-03-25T15:58:48+00:00

“No, you did it because you’re interested in him. And youve disrespected me in more ways than one. He seems like a great guy, you should explore your feelings. I won’t stand in the way. I can do some of my own exploring.”

Meloxian · 2021-03-25T16:40:57+00:00

Your LTR did this? She’s not LTR material, this is disrespect. Period.

Astro129129 · 2021-03-25T18:40:06+00:00

Bro this chick sounds insane, ignore the shit out of her, I would have never responded to her again if she sent me any texts like that or talked to me in that way. Is this really someone you want to invest time into that you’ll never get back? Go out and talk to more women, enjoy college.

kclanton80 · 2021-03-26T08:31:02+00:00

Dump that bitch. You CAN next her. Don't be a slave to some pussy.

Title	Girlfriend kept bragging about another guy
Author	KAKAROT_69
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Date	March 25, 2021 2:14 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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