Thought this was relevant...

dantedivolo · 2013-03-31T07:12:15+00:00

Dude is scummy if true. That's not how one treats another human being. Edit: they're both scummy.

kmmeerts · 2013-03-31T14:10:48+00:00

I don't think we should be posting 4chan greentext here. I doubt a lot of these stories actually happened.

theegrimrobe · 2013-03-31T09:25:33+00:00

I call troll ... Not TC here but the 4chan poster

Its slightly too perfect

sidwood · 2013-03-31T16:00:45+00:00

Get this 4chan shit out of here.

chevalier_d_eon · 2013-03-31T11:55:47+00:00

She might have been psychotic, but I've never had a meaningful interaction (i.e. sex) with a woman and then just wanted to throw her out afterwards.

mountainmansOG · 2013-03-31T08:56:58+00:00

Hugely scummy.

NovaLovesFrogs · 2013-03-31T16:19:35+00:00

I'm not defending the girl's actions at all, but he was a total scumbag to her, and losing your virginity can be frightening and confusing, especially when you lose it to a piece of morally inept crap like the 4chan OP of this story if it's true.

She was drunk. She said she was a virgin. He should've just stopped right there regardless of what she said about wanting to have sex or not. In some instances he could've been charged for rape if he was more sober than she was, because technically she wasn't in any condition to wholly consent. I had a few friends in high school that almost ruined their lives by having sex with drunk girls. Whether or not you agree that they can consent, it's best to just avoid it, if only for your own safety.

When I was fourteen, I was repeatedly accused of rape by a friend of mine. We'd been friends for about a year, year and a half. She ended up living with me because of a bad home environment. It's a long story.

She accused me of raping her nightly, and beating her severely and cutting her. She left the cuts and bruises on herself, and I never once touched her in a sexual manner. She tried to get the police involved, but luckily for me, she already had a case worker and her school counselor called her case worker to asses the situation before police were called in. The girl was a known liar.

The police were never involved, thankfully, because of the case worker. But I lost almost every friend I had, including one I'd had since I was a small child, and I was constantly called a rapist and received literally hundreds of abusive emails from her and her friends. I should have just stayed the hell away from her, because I already knew she liked to tell stories.

False accusations of rape are never justified. But I do think that everyone should take the time to assess the situation in an attempt to avoid it. If there's a high chance the person you're about to sleep with is going to regret it [drunks/virgins included in this] it's just safer not to take that risk, because you're at a high risk for being falsely accused of rape.

Does that mean I think the responsibility to avoid a false rape accusation lies solely with men? Absolutely not! It's just a sad fact that false rape accusations are a reality and real risk and it's happening more and more and more. And many men do end up imprisoned over false accusations, and even if they don't, even if the truth comes out, one false rape accusation can ruin a man's life for the rest of his life -- especially if accounts of it made it to the media.

Edit: Fixed a couple typos.

InNomine · 2013-03-31T11:27:58+00:00

What a terrible person, but why is this here?

geengaween · 2013-03-31T18:16:33+00:00

pretty much everything on 4chan is bullshit.

CrossHook · 2013-04-01T16:01:58+00:00

Money says it didn't happen but it was a great story.

I'm setting up that camera right now. Fuck a false accusation, bitch. You're going on the internet.

Quonsoe00 · 2013-04-01T20:08:36+00:00

Note to self... buy a webcam

DavidByron · 2013-04-02T01:29:36+00:00

No way that happened. The cops would probably have arrested him anyway and no way they'd pepper spray or taze a girl claiming to have been raped.

Title	Thought this was relevant...
Author	solarbang
Upvotes	11
Comments	37
Date	March 31, 2013 6:39 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/mensrights/comments/1bcj8b/thought-this-was-relevant/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/thought-this-was-relevant.1609427 https://theredarchive.com/post/1609427

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