Wife and I are going through the toughest patch in our time together. Multiple children.
Shes accused me of cheating. I have not. I have not met her emotional needs, and perhaps I got comfortable and stopped trying as hard as I could have. My focus has always been her and our children. Even in all my shitty ways, I tried.
I recently found out she’s had essentially lost all respect for me, she talks incredibly badly about me. We’re roommates at this point. We hug and kiss once or twice a day. But it feels like she’s doing it because she has to. There’s very rarely any feeling in the hugs and absolutely none in the little kisses.

I want my wife back. I want my best friend back. I understand I’ve made mistakes. But I’m doing all in my power to show her this marriage it still worth it.

I’m just a bit lost at the moment.