So i organised a date with this girl but it's scheduled two weeks away. Do i make conversation with her inbetween or go radio silent?

gveavbae · 2016-04-12T01:41:26+00:00

Text game can be a powerful tool to keep the flames stoked. Don't let the fire burn out.

[deleted] · 2016-04-12T15:34:10+00:00

"Good morning my flame... my muse... 14 days until our big night..."

Next day.

"How did you sleep my little snowflake? 13 days until our big night..."

Every single day until you see her. JK. It'd be hilarious though.

Shakedaddy4x · 2016-04-12T02:27:12+00:00

I've met up with girls 3 weeks or more later before and they didn't flake even though I went radio silent (was on Tinder though so maybe it's diff)

SpinPlates · 2016-04-12T04:23:55+00:00

2 weeks? That's an eternity for a single hot girl.

I honestly wouldn't expect to see her unless you can really captivate her with text game.

EndowedTurtle · 2016-04-12T00:53:43+00:00

2 weeks in advance is suspect in of itself; how well do you know this girl? She could get extremely bored in the meantime, and might already be planning a sooner date with someone else.

But by all means, go radio silent until the day of to confirm where/when.

human_enquirer · 2016-04-12T04:53:06+00:00

I'm glad this is being brought up. I've got someone to come over to "hang out" on Friday evening. Reality, I think she just wants her computer fixed but I think I'd like to warm up the pan and prime if possible.

Edit: Spelling.

JimFury · 2016-04-12T07:23:46+00:00

I agree with fluviant text game has become pretty vital. Although if you really suck at it maybe just avoid it altogether but texting is such a huge part of how everyone communicates that it's a good skill to learn. Now while I've said that why did you schedule a date so far away. Two weeks is such a long time it's more likely she'll flake in two weeks because the tingles have worn off. Practice your text game if you get good enough with it you can only text a chick and build up everything before hand.

SkorchZang · 2016-04-12T07:26:25+00:00

A good basic rule is 2/3. Meaning, for every two text-sessions you initiate, you allow her to initiate at least 3.

For around every 3 messages she sends you, you send 2, and yours are always shorter/dumber and more lazy.

If this is a completely new girl, first date type deal - then I'd keep as silent as you can. Still respond and make her giggle if she's the one initiating, but keep it short, keep saying "look forward to see you then" and getting off the texting. The more she's wondering what you're so busy with and just how many girls do you have texting you, the better.

The last thing you want is to come across like you're incredibly psyched about this date 2 weeks ahead, and make her the centre of your whole world in the meantime. Do that and you don't stand a chance, she will brutally dispose of you.

idgaf- · 2016-04-12T16:19:26+00:00

Probably better to use snapchat to share cool moments.

BeyondDedication · 2016-04-12T19:12:37+00:00

Don't text her basic how's it going BS. After you do something interesting shoot her a little text to discuss.

One of my dates for the weekend, i texted her today. "My coworker has two oranges and a banana on her desk and it looks like a dick."

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