How important is being lean enough in these days for dating and confidence

No-Forever-7283 · 2026-08-15T15:32:50+00:00

I got lean this year and it does help a lot. I get compliments on my look all the time. It doesn’t just make ur body look better but it gets rid of face fat which enhances your features like your jawline eye area etc. It’s definitely help a lot. But at the end of the day, my issue is that I never work on my skills. So it’s not like random girls will be throwing themselves on u.

FindingNewLeaf · 2026-08-15T15:26:53+00:00

Your goal is to improve your odds with girls? If so, it won't hurt, but probably won't improve in any significant way either.

However, it might improve your self esteem or how you feel about yourself, and that alone will help you more with game than any change in looks.

KeenActual · 2026-08-15T15:26:38+00:00

A good looking body is what turns heads. Personality and charm is what drops panties.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-08-15T18:52:10+00:00

Think about it this way: Being Lean is going to make you look more attractive. So it will make that part of your game better. But it's not gonna magically change your face that much, nor your hair, nor your height, nor any other thing about you. And it's not going to improve your social skills.

Lean is good. But lean is just a small thing, all things considered. So to answer your question: It is NOT very important. But you should probably still be decently lean, because why leave any stone unturned?

Much more important than being lean, is shooting your shot. Meeting women, approaching women, asking women out, trying to escalate beyond friendship. Those things are many more times more important than being lean. Women like lean guys, but they place it rather low on their list of priorities. They will usually go out with a guy that makes her feel good, and is charming, over a guy that is lean but not charming. So if you can only maximize one stat: Aim to be charming and shoot your shot more.

Mountain-Elk8133 · 2026-08-15T22:12:58+00:00

Im lean and invisible to women

nordik1 · 2026-08-15T22:43:35+00:00

Girls get turned on by a nice body as much as men do and it boosts your own mindset drastically

so yes it’s a big deal

Perma_Curious · 2026-08-15T15:49:06+00:00

Im already in asia. Hmu

ReportBig2296 · 2026-08-15T18:39:51+00:00

More recently, the trending aesthetics is leanness, for both men and women. Think runner’s build. Even the fashion industry is designing clothes for the lean people, those wide and baggy fits are specifically made for lean people. So yes, getting lean will help because it will not only help with your physical attractiveness but also keep you within trend. Also, all the attractive dudes in Asia are lean, whom are your competition.

Reditman3000 · 2026-08-16T06:52:59+00:00

Would you date a fat chick over a fit chick? There's your answer.

Title	How important is being lean enough in these days for dating and confidence
Author	Junior-Effective9179
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	August 15, 2026 3:18 PM UTC (1 day ago)
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