How does the idea that "texting is for logistics" work in 2019 where girls are attached to their phones?

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-01-14T06:24:19+00:00

Make your meets memorable.

Look, a tiny bit of conversation is fine, but always lead to logistics.

Don't be so caught up on 'oh, I really need to keep her attention's. That's poor frame.

Do the 2/3 rule...keep it brief...and set logistics. If she msgs you, respond, but 2/3 rule...and always end first. You have shit to do, don't you?

chazthundergut · 2019-01-14T06:56:06+00:00

Texting a little bit is okay. But keep it to a minimum

And the answer is that you will stand out if you're the only guy not blowing up her phone all the time

SICFJC · 2019-01-14T07:05:20+00:00

Texting for logistics only was an old RSD trick, I think it was Julien that came up with it. This was for girls that you picked up in bars and clubs, NOT for girls you meet on tinder. Did you meet a girl at a bar and kissed her but you just ended up with her number? Logistics only texting. Hot girl on tinder you matched with and girls in your social circle are different game. You have to go with context.

Ravenscar7 · 2019-01-14T12:20:35+00:00

The general rule I use is I always wait for the double text. Or at least 2 hours. And I like to stop replying to conversations until the next day. This works very well in my LTR. But at the earlier stages of a relationship you should probably give them a little more attention.

IVIaskerade · 2019-01-14T15:03:38+00:00

In a world of orbiter who text back instantly, the man who doesn't stands out.

HumptyDumptyFellHard · 2019-01-14T06:07:08+00:00

I usually text her her eand there, but always have a objective in mind. I always try to end the conversation first too and then retext her again some days after. That way you show here she isn’t special

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-01-14T13:32:57+00:00

I've recently changed my rules from no texting to : No more than 2/3 in a row and then she's on for the next day..

chadchadovsky · 2019-01-14T18:16:19+00:00

I have girls texting me after months or even years of radio silence. If you are high SMV male with some game it will be hard for them to forget you. She will be waiting for your texts all the time and when she finally gets it, a huge dopamine spike will make you even more special in her eyes. You are either her first choice or you are not.

Your fear of her moving on is only legit if you have the same SMV/game as her other orbiters. Stick out, make no excuses. FUCK HER BRAINS OUT WHEN YOU SEE HER!!!!!!!!!! Be unmovable, cold, stoic motherfucker that she can't get out of her head.

SalporinRP · 2019-01-14T18:55:16+00:00

I think in this day and age you need to converse at least a little bit over text. Especially with women you meet on dating apps.

Just don't overdo it

Rasheediscool · 2019-01-14T13:17:19+00:00

So I'm a busy guy. I work a 9-5, I do photography, I go to the gym etc. I'm usually busy all day almost every day.

What I do is send them the occasional text throughout the day when I'm free. And at end of the day when I'm done with everything I need to do I'll give them a call and talk to them for about 30 minutes to an hour. Remember, only do this when you're done with everything for the day. Don't skip the gym to call them, or stop working your your homework, or stop meditating just to call them, do you first. Girls tend to not complain to me about not texting if they feel I'll he calling them later anyways.

Make sure when you do take them out that it's a fun experience. These things help counter the whole lack of texting thing. I'm 23 years old and I spent my teenage and college years in this texting era so I know how weird and complicated things can get with the whole texting thing

squirtlenugget69 · 2019-01-14T05:59:13+00:00

You just stick your dick inside her, ez clap

MrFiles · 2019-01-14T16:39:27+00:00

This is simple. Use Instagram to your advantage. Have your insta set up that shows social proof and post to your story that also shows social proof. This will game every girl who watches it indirectly.

This will keep you on their mind and keep you from making mistakes over text

Little Banter over text is fine but lead to logistics. You want to actually hang out with the girls not just text them don't you?

Title	How does the idea that "texting is for logistics" work in 2019 where girls are attached to their phones?
Author	SICFJC
Upvotes	22
Comments	30
Date	January 14, 2019 5:57 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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