Men who ask questions for women on this sub will never be good with women

tossed_salad100 · 2020-08-31T17:05:03+00:00

My boyfriend bangs me and asks questions to me all the time about what I like and what I want from him. When he takes that advice, our relationship gets better. Just like when I asked him for tips on how to give better blowjobs, my blowjob game increased drastically.

If you're red pill, you don't care about the other person's happiness though so I can see why this would be counterintuitive.

rubbooyuri · 2020-08-31T17:16:43+00:00

Contempt for the object of your desire is not generally a good way to get amiable companionship and affection. Sex, sure. Dysfunctional relationships, sure

JohnDoe9564 · 2020-08-31T17:10:09+00:00

People don't come here for answers. The questions were never meant to help the OP in any way. Pretty much everyone knows this is in an UMC to UC echo chamber with people who've lived very sheltered lives.

It's just a fun debate sub, nothing more.

RedPill_is_a_cult · 2020-08-31T17:19:37+00:00

When I just started dating my wife, I asked my sister, who had gone to college with my wife, and was pretty good friends with her, what she was into, and if there were any topics I should avoid.

My wife's dad is an abusive asshole, and she had all but cut ties with him. A week doesn't go by where she doesn't make a comment about how glad she is I'm not like him. I can apologize when I'm wrong, because I have integrity. I can ask her what she wants, because she likes to have input. And I ask her what she's comfortable with, because she has past trauma that surfaces in sometimes unexpected ways.

Your advice might be good if you're looking to manipulate someone, but it doesn't make for a healthy relationship, and it isn't going to last.

InfiniteIncident · 2020-08-31T16:52:23+00:00

I never understood "ask a fish how to catch it" being comparable to obtaining relationships with women. Fish will die if you remove them from their natural habitat. Heterosexual women often do want relationships with men, so why would they sabotage explaining their likes and dislikes?

SmurfESmurferson · 2020-08-31T16:54:02+00:00

You’re wrong, but not about the subject of your OP (yes, the men who as questions of the women here will never be good with women)

You’re wrong on how men who actually are successful with women act - they’re not some weird stoic, quiet guys alternating between bestowing attention and ignoring her. They’re definitely not trying to act out some weird incest porn by acting like her father

Men who are good with women like interacting with them. They enjoy the flirtations, the sexually charged conversations, the dates and, yes, the sex itself

Do they have self respect and boundaries? Of course they do, like any other healthy person. But the bottom line is that they like and enjoy women, and women like and enjoy their company

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Mrs_Drgree · 2020-08-31T17:17:59+00:00

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Mimoxs · 2020-08-31T17:19:13+00:00

The fact that after reading red pill truth bombs big enough to level Hiroshima

You mean like that women love fucking dogs or that pushing through a woman's "no"s is a good idea? All women want a big manly man? All women will be susceptible to tactics even if they recognize what you're doing? That sort?

stranglethebars · 2020-08-31T16:56:21+00:00

While I don't doubt that red pill methods work well on certain kinds of people, I still struggle imagining it working on people who are confident, rational, laidback and so on. As to asking women about their preferences, sure, some lie, but what's your basis for saying that basically all of them lie? I don't think there's any contradiction between banging women and discussing preferences with them.

Title	Men who ask questions for women on this sub will never be good with women
Author	TazeThemAll
Upvotes	6
Comments	85
Date	August 31, 2020 4:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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