So I’ve been talking to this girl for awhile and only recently hooked up with her for the first time (it took forever for her to get comfortable enough to hookup with me as her perception of me was definitely as a badboy/frat douche) but we’ve been talking a pretty good amount for the last couple weeks and I can tell she’s getting very into me. She was really nervous to hang out with me even tho we talked a ton and although she’s a solid 8/10 she’s also a very “good girl” whose Christian and has a low n count (I was her 10th and I know she’s had a million chances to fuck the guys hitting her up) and is somewhat shy and introverted. Im a pretty big partier and have recently been working hard to change my act and she’s a very good influence as well.

We fucked for the first time this weekend and spent pretty much the entire weekend in bed together, and I’m not gonna lie our personalities majorly clicked. I’m really good at telling girls what they want to hear emotionally when in bed with them and they always eat it up but this time I actually meant some of the “soft” shit I said. Last night I was out of town for a concert and she was drunk and left the party she was at because she wanted to talk to me so bad and we ended up talking pretty much all night (I was still rolling on molly so I was feeling amazing and super social).

I’m pretty available most of the time (even tho id been really seriously talking to another girl who ended up being BPD for most of the time I’ve been scheming on this girl) less because I’m needy and more because I’m very social, but I don’t want to come off as super overly invested for fear of scaring her off. But does this even matter for a girl you could see yourself in an LTR with who probably thinks the same about you?

TL;DR: starting to get somewhat serious with a 8/10 with little to no red flags whose pretty into me, do I need to worry about being overly available?