She is having suicidal thoughts.

Juan-San · 2017-11-26T18:27:44+00:00

GET THE FUCK OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. NOW.

vandaalen · 2017-11-26T19:07:52+00:00

Dear gentlemen,

I am a retard, who likes to stick his dick into crazy. Shamefully I'll have to admit, that that is not all, but I am also a needy motherfucker, which is why I jump into commited relationships with equally retarded bitches without proper screening.

Yes. Absolutely. Since you acknowledged it by yourself I'll tell you what to do:

You call the cops and tell them that you are afraid that a girl you know will kill herself and that you have photoproof of her already having harmed herself.

Then you delete her number, block her everywhere and forget that you have ever met her.

Then you take the belt with the biggest buckle you own and beat yourself with it as hard as you can ten times. Maybe that will teach you a lesson.

LeonardoDiDraperBond · 2017-11-26T18:51:58+00:00

Cut this bitch off while its still in an early stage. She won't kill herself. She just wants attention which is why she sent you the picture and changed her status.

If you stay in this relationship it will get worse and worse and she will drag you down with her. Get the fuck out now.

Work_In_Progress92 · 2017-11-26T18:54:24+00:00

Hit the eject button.

Retspihi · 2017-11-26T18:41:00+00:00

LEAVE HER

3 months is NOTHING. Leave her.

redhawkes · 2017-11-26T18:56:23+00:00

Your turn is over. Not your monkeys, not your circus.

You can only fuck yourself up if you continue this captain save a hoe trip.

I get sent a picture of her arm with blood on it and her crying.

She changed her status to "suicidal thoughts"

Run mofo. Sounds like BPD attention seeking whore.

TheDisillusionist · 2017-11-26T19:08:05+00:00

Give her info on where to get help then leave. This is the very beginning and it is already super fucked up. Make it clear that any contact with you that involves discussing self harm or suicide will immediately result in a 911 call and no further attention.

This shit is a fucking game that relies on your compassion to make you a chump.

Scholes_SC2 · 2017-11-26T19:49:12+00:00

The more you wait the worse itll be. End it

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-11-26T20:05:31+00:00

self harm

Bro are you autistic, or final-stage codependent, or both?

What part of "do not stick your dick in crazy," and "Don't be Captain-Save-a-Ho" do you not understand?

Repeat after me. "Not my circus; not my monkeys."

This whole thing is a mess, I am grateful for any replies.

Refer her to a psychiatrist or professional counselor, then go 100% zero contact.

COORDOORS · 2017-11-26T20:08:39+00:00

leave now. protect number 1 at all times.

jm51 · 2017-11-26T20:12:21+00:00

Mid 70s, me mid 20s, her early 30s. Love at first sight yada yada. We start shacking up together and I bring my sounds and LPs to her place.

I like Leonard Cohen. Played Dress Rehearsal Rag and she went into Cosmic overload. Talked about suicide for days.

Days turned into more suicide talk days and I snapped. We were sitting on the couch and I covered her mouth with one hand while holding her nostrils closed with the other.

For somebody so keen on wanting to die, she fought like a fucking tiger. Not being able to breathe seems to have that effect on people.

I never hit her, too busy just stopping her breathing. She hit me plenty. She eventually gets me to stop asphyxiating her using nasty down low (testicular) violence.

No more suicide talk. Worth the pain.

TheDreadnought1 · 2017-11-26T20:39:20+00:00

Glad that everyone rushed here to tell you the truth. Yeah, she's probably BPD or something similar. If you stay with her, she'll use this suicidal thing and much more dirty tactics to keep you unhappy and locked down on her draining embrace. Don't do it to yourself. It's not fucking worth it.

Also, look for "An Ear For Men" on YT and see Paul Elam's videos about BPDs. Maybe you'll relate.

TIME TO ABANDON SHIP

Fart-Lover · 2017-11-26T20:56:26+00:00

Tell her you're gay.

boredgod · 2017-11-26T22:55:57+00:00

This happens all the time with crazies. Leave her and learn to identify crazy so you can filter them out. She is wasting your time and you’ll never be the man you should be by letting her waste it. The only thing she needs is mental help, and if she won’t get it now then you’re letting yourself drown with her. You can’t save her. Looks like you can’t even save yourself yet. Dump her, no contact. Go to the gym.

OrgasmicKitkat · 2017-11-27T00:00:21+00:00

Get in touch with some suicide prevention hotline. Explain the situation, but make sure they understand that you want no part in the whole thing and that as soon as it's safe, you're blocking her from your life for good.

Hear what they've got to say and if it's sound advice, follow it. But you've got to get out.

1Pink1Stink · 2017-11-26T18:59:27+00:00

What kind of stupid ass question is this? What does this have to do with trp? fuck off

Title	She is having suicidal thoughts.
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Date	November 26, 2017 6:24 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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