What do we get in return for our commitment?
Never forget: Women hold the keys to sex. Men hold the keys to commitment. With feminism's victory and our matriarchal culture, the only leverage men have in a relationship today is our commitment.
We always talk about "setting boundaries" but are rarely specific. I want to change that so let's do a thought experiment. Say you are with a girl who wants to take it to the next level- exclusivity, moving, getting married, having kids, etc. Of course she is being agreeable, sweet and submissive and she is laying you like tile. Everything is GREAT and she is exactly what you have always wanted in a woman.
IF you decide to adopt her frame and take up the relationship a notch, THEN you need to establish the future boundaries and NOW is the time to do it.
Let's list and describe those boundaries:
Her attitude and behavior: How does she treat you- sweet and submissive. Smart and submissive? Ball busting and rude? You get to pick at this stage. Negotiate it and be specific. Make it for as long as there is a relationship.
SEX: How much enthusiastic sex do you get AT A MINIMUM. Is it every other day. Every 3 days? Is it twice a month cuz that's probably what you are going to get eventually. Blowjobs to completion and anal sex are also good to put on the menu at this point.
Guys night out/no girls night out (at least in places targeted by thirsty chodes and slayer Alphas).
Can we come up with more to add to our list of demands before we commit? I realize many will claim it doesn't matter because she will change anyway but I say it DOES matter if you can establish a frame for the relationship. If you follow that frame you will have far fewer problems later.
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