Can you make the switch while in a LTR?

idgaf- · 2016-10-21T16:18:11+00:00

Cut her off. It will make the transition easier and more effective. And if you still want her, it will be easier to get her back.

nastynickdr · 2016-10-21T16:23:42+00:00

Well, you could give it a try. She will resist, she will shit test, she will nag. If you are truly improving, holding frame like a boss, being the oak, having abundance mentality and outcome independence, not giving a fuck about what she does/thinks/acts/says, lifting / eating right, having hobbies outside of the house and having a good social life, not defending/explaining/rationalizing your actions and being overall a high quality man, it could work. You should be doing this stuff anyway, with this chick or not. What you have to ask yourself this, is she worth it? What value she adds to your life aside from her pussy? Remember that pussy is really cheap nowadays.

fnordsnord · 2016-10-21T18:52:09+00:00

Seriously? Incel for SIX MONTHS?

Go to her place when she's not there, pack your stuff and get it out. Change the locks on your place and get your key to her place off of her key ring. Leave the key on her breakfast table.

Call her (voice) and say, "Baby, we do nothing but fight anymore. It's no good for either of us. I'm done."

Hang up, block her number, block her on social media and MOVE ON.

quicklogaccount · 2016-10-21T17:57:28+00:00

We haven't had sex for 6 months right now.. And since we can't talk without her bitching or fighting with me she isn't really adding value at all. I guess it's really the Beta in me wishfully hoping it will return to its former glory. Right? I'm new to this and just trying to get a understanding of it.

Do you have kids? If no, are you married in a way where divorce will cost you half of your things? If so, stay.

"No" to the questions above? A few more.
Do you resent her? A lot? Not a lot? Any chances you'll think she was a whore to some other dude and won't fuck you if you move a mountain? Don't bother trying.

You don't resent her, at all?
12 levels of dread. Google it, but start lifting on stage 1 if you don't already. It might sound dickish for a newcomer, but ABUNDANCE MENTALITY IS NON NEGOTIABLE. GO AND TALK TO OTHER WOMEN.

Besides that:

Improve your looks;
Be more social;
Become more resourceful;
Lead people.

desno · 2016-10-21T17:58:33+00:00

Leave her. Read this subreddit. Lift, get a better fashion sense, get tinder and just find other women in general.

The reason you can't leave is probably because you have no other options. You need to make other options for yourself.

Title	Can you make the switch while in a LTR?
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Comments	16
Date	October 21, 2016 4:07 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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