"Look at me... Look at me... Look at me... HEY WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT YOU PERV!!!" Why do women do this?

chairmobile · 2014-07-25T11:25:58+00:00

It's because for a woman, the very act of rejection feels good. It simultaneously confirms that they are high value/hot while allowing them to 1. Affirm to themselves they're higher up on the pecking order than the men who approach them, and 2. Lie to themselves about having high standards and not being a slut.

Remember, for women, the emotional validation is akin to sexual validation for men.

mordanus · 2014-07-25T04:07:47+00:00

OP please never go to those subs you mentioned in your edit for female advice

Ill_mumble_that · 2014-07-25T01:02:59+00:00

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DankPanties · 2014-07-25T04:45:11+00:00

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/06/04/feminists-loathe-male-desire/

And it’s not like the attractive ones are completely oblivious to it, but of course it’s hard for a feminist to grasp. They realize pretty fast that their cooch gives them a lot of power over men. Being regarded as a sex object is actually an advantage, at least in a society that frowns upon rape (or as we call it, “civilized society”).

It’s another astonishing piece of self serving dishonesty to say that men and women have equal sex drives and then to demonize men for the fact that this is simply not true, thus “proving” that men are inferior. Nobody buys that shit.

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It messes up women’s heads. On one hand they are tempted to do like everyone else, as shown to them by the media. And there is a reward in men’s attention, which they crave since they have always survived through men.

On the other hand their minds are not made for giving away sex to all men. Their instinct is all about holding back sex and give it only to one mate in exchange for him providing. Giving men strong visual gratification is like giving away free sex. It messes with their minds. It makes them feel sick after a while.

Then they are taught to rationalize it by hating men.

http://www.amnation.com/vfr/archives/011225.html

The way many women dress today, with half their breasts exposed, is an expression of total disrespect for men. Men are left with three possible responses. To grab the woman, which is illegal; to ogle the woman, which is socially unacceptable; or to affect not to notice the woman at all, which is emasculating. A culture that normalizes such female behavior—i.e. not only not noticing or objecting to it, but prohibiting any objection to it—is extremely sick.

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Your point that such outrageously provocative dress—which is now all but standard among American women, whether in the office, the gym or anywhere else—is actually disrespectful and demeaning to men, is one that is not made nearly often enough. I think you’ve really hit on it when you say that to pretend not to notice such things is actually emasculating. This touches on the basic fact that men, as men, are ineradicably interested in the sight of semi-denuded women. This is so basic to what men are that to disregard it is an open challenge to his status as a man, forcing him to pretend at being something other than what he is, compelling him to assent by his silence to an obvious lie. It is a companion to the morbidly sick insistence, now spreading in the Netherlands, that men should never urinate in a standing position. Men do not walk around half-naked precisely because it is obscene, and because women are not interested in seeing them dressed that way. For women to pretend there is no sexual component to dressing in ways so revealing that they go far beyond what is even practical or comfortable, is really just a quintessentially feminine, passive-aggressive kind of power play.

TheSKSpecial · 2014-07-25T01:03:06+00:00

To put it simply, they want men to look at them...but only the attractive ones.

If you're attractive she'll let you eye-fuck her all day (and can't wait for you to approach her). If you're not? Prepare to catch hell, followed by a weepy Tumblr/TwoX post about "stare-rape" (and approaching her will be grounds for being called "creepy" and claiming "harassment").

FallenHighSchoolJock · 2014-07-25T05:14:36+00:00

Here is why. Women want male attention. If they didn't they wouldn't wear make up, they wouldn't dress provocatively (no girl goes to a club looking like that to feel empowered or whatever) and they wouldn't do their hair. The thing is, however, unlike men women lack agency. They rarely approach men, therefore they base their self worth, their attractiveness on the quality of men who approach them. If an ugly guy approaches a girl, subconsciously she thinks 'shit, so this is my league?' If you approach a girl and she's not attracted to you she's not just indifferent, she's offended by it. That's why women can be downright mean when they blow men off.

mordanus · 2014-07-25T09:36:26+00:00

Women love being objectified. They fucking love it. If you ever doubt that just turn on sir mixalot's baby got back and watch every woman dance like crazy to a song about how awesome their ass is. Women fucking love that song.

The thing is that women only want to be objectified by a man they consider quality. There was a post around here about how women think that the bottom 80% of men are below average. So if you are below the 80% mark then they aren't interested in you. If you are 80% through 90% you are average and 90 up is above average. Messed up math but welcome to a woman's mind.

Anyways when they get dressed in the morning and put on their sluttiest things they picture the top tier of men noticing. They hope to attract the top tier of guys and be objectified by them.

Put yourself into a woman's shoes for a sec. Think about if you went out and fat ugly bitches always hit on you. Yes it's kind of a compliment but you didn't put on your best clothes to attract the dregs of society. You wanted something of quality to comment on how good you look. If all you can get is the rejects then that must mean you are a reject.

That's why women shut you down so hard. If they think of you as ugly then you hitting on them hurts their self esteem.

jameshookegrey · 2014-07-25T01:01:12+00:00

The woman is looking for attention, but views the "perv" who's giving it to her as beneath her. If he had a higher SMV, she wouldn't react so negatively.

DianaDewAsmr · 2014-07-25T13:32:36+00:00

If I dress in a certain way I know I will get looks and hit upon.

It took me TRP to understand it, it's crazy the amount of responsibility we as women are trying to get rid of. I don't dress the same way without my man now and it feels great.

I'd also like to add that most women "bragplain" about creeps just to have something to complain about while affirming their high SMV value to other people. It instills jealousy when a woman is being catcalled and the other totally ignored.

rockumsockumrobots · 2014-07-25T07:01:27+00:00

When I see a beautiful woman, I don't bother giving her any attention unless she's dressed modestly. Your outward appearance lends good credence to your character. For instance, fat = mentally lazy, lewd = mentally imbalanced / exploitative, etc.

angel3110 · 2014-07-25T11:17:30+00:00

They do that because your SMV (social market value) is low. This is a good example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbeEuYAZFL4&list=UUpZqUw8beIKNY5_fYw2clVA

2014-07-25T14:54:25+00:00

Its like ive always said: The only difference between flirting and sexual harassment is the SMV of the person doing it.

Merica911 · 2014-07-25T15:46:34+00:00

I look at it like this. Let's say "Jen" is a 10 on the scale. She gets all dolled up to hit up the club. "Billy Bob" the guy that has love handles, neck hair, and pants 2x his size is considered a "creep" therfore her reaction for a "creep" looking at her is "stop looking at me perv".

Now "Handsome Henry" the guy with designer name band clothing that fits him, built, and very sociable with the crowd looks at Jen in the club it's "mission complete" for her as what she exactly wants.

2014-07-25T23:45:57+00:00

In short, woman want to have their cake and eat it.

Society let's them. If we object to it, we are chastised as being weak and insecure then we are accused of being oppressive. Sounds like something a child would do. Funny how that works.

GameboyPATH · 2014-07-25T04:18:26+00:00

Can I assume you're referring to women who dress in a way that's revealing or sexy?

Here's an excerpt from a really good comment I've found on this topic:

Consider the following small sample of situations in which a person may wear "revealing" clothing. Some situations probably overlap.

It's hot

The item of clothing is appropriate for the activity (swimsuits, dancing, a day at the beach)

The item of clothing is comfortable

The person likes that item of clothing and feels happy wearing it

The person's body type is such that they may show a lot of skin in most clothing (a woman with large breasts, for example)

The person is trying to show off their body

Please note that human beings have lots of different reasons for choosing their clothing, and that attractiveness to others is only one of many reasons. It's a show of poor perspective taking that many people see a woman showing a little cleavage and think "she must have known that I would look!" rather than "she probably likes that top."

esco_ · 2014-07-25T04:30:03+00:00

Yes because you guys don't only want attractive women looking at you, you live when "ugly bitches" admire you too. You would even date them!! Oh wait..

Btw I thought sexual attraction was important, or are only men allowed that right? But I suppose nobody is going to actually dispute my point, it would be too hard to not contradict yourself.

Title	"Look at me... Look at me... Look at me... HEY WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT YOU PERV!!!" Why do women do this?
Author	easyrandomguy
Upvotes	40
Comments	104
Date	July 25, 2014 12:54 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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