Plates texting other guys -- grounds for nexting?

BrunoOh · 2015-11-18T18:28:43+00:00

It pisses you off because it's low quality behavior.

That's why these women are plates and nothing more.

prodigy2throw · 2015-11-18T17:07:20+00:00

The great thing about women is, if you don't like what they're doing, you find another.

Gogo4u · 2015-11-18T17:20:35+00:00

plates can do whatever they want since they're not a LTR

Pretty much.

I'm referring to texting that is done IN FRONT of me when we are together.

If you were truly upset about the texting in front of you and not the fact that it was another guy then you wouldn't have mentioned the 'other guys' part.

If you're upset because you can't carry on a conversation since she's absorbed into her phone then you have a legitimate complaint and it's up to you to decide if its worth your time to interact with her going forward.

However, if you're just upset when it's texts to other guys, then yes, its your own insecurity and your own problem to deal with, not hers.

90% chance she's doing it on purpose (how else would you know who shes texting). Don't let yourself be manipulated. Amused mastery that shit and get what you're there for.

RedPillJax · 2015-11-18T19:40:24+00:00

I'd say it's disrespectful, but she's a plate. Move on if you don't like it - literally the way she sneezes can be 'grounds for nexting' if you want it to be.

Zeparic · 2015-11-18T20:24:39+00:00

You get pissed because you have a feeling of ownership. You don't.
It's a shit-test on her part.

She's overtly exhibiting these behaviors to determine your level of interest. The less interested/affect you are the more you exhibit... ABUNDANCE MENTALITY. I.E.: A man with options I.E. an Alpha male.

In other words, void your interests, affection, money and any other valuable asset you provide to this hoe. Send her home, ignore her, find some other slut, let the dread boil up and when she contacts you again go for the poon.

FrameWalker · 2015-11-18T19:16:37+00:00

Some insist on exclusivity from their plates. I haven't tried, I don't think they'd be honest about it. I focus on always accepting that it's a nonexclusive temporary situation. There's always a cost

You get to sleep with as many other women as you can game, but have to live with the knowledge that you're sharing. Or you choose one of woman and prepare to nxt if you find out you're sharing.

The higher you smv the more likely that you're her best and only option so ficus inwards. Lift, grow, and game.

wehadtosaydickety · 2015-11-19T03:55:35+00:00

I personally would. I accept that they see other guys but like the illusion of exclusivity while we're together. For that reason if they continually reference other guys or put them in my face, e.g. Texting them in front of me, I'll bounce. When I'm with them they have my attention, I don't have my phone out etc., I expect the same.

JGTD · 2015-11-19T22:03:53+00:00

My plate does this, well did.. I started doing it in front of her, sometimes not even texting girls just looking down at my phone and smirking, took about two weeks and now she doesn't even look at her phone around me.

thebadmanpuntdbaxter · 2015-11-18T17:16:14+00:00

It's basic sperm competition man, your lizard brain thinks you are trying to sire a child whenever you fuck. Instinctually you don't want to waste resources on a child that isn't yours. If you can dehumanize her enough in your head you can probably get over it

Title	Plates texting other guys -- grounds for nexting?
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Date	November 18, 2015 4:56 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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