How do RP men love?

dreckmal · 2015-09-24T13:30:29+00:00

Here's the secret:

A man's time is his love. Where and what you spend time doing reflects what you actually give a shit about.

94redstealth · 2015-09-24T12:59:09+00:00

TRP should not change how, who or when you love. As far as love, all TRP does is open yours eyes to potential waste of your love.
Honestly, I feel I love my daughter more since TRP because I have learn and had ideas reaffirmed. My TRP actions have created a better relationship.

And dont forget, there are different levels of love. You can still love a woman. But dont try and have the movie love story love. Its not worth your effort.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-09-24T13:44:52+00:00

The best relationship with a woman is where she loves you, and you like her.

/hat tip: Patrice

Wolfwoodd · 2015-09-24T14:00:39+00:00

I'm just going to address the part about women (the other questions are just silly):

Yes, love women for who and what they are. Most guys just love the idealized concept of what they think women are supposed to be. You can still love somebody even if you suspect that they won't be in your life forever.

Furthermore, love and self-interest aren't mutually exclusive. Self-sacrifice and love aren't the same thing. You can still love somebody without them being a detriment to your own happiness. I expect the opposite is usually the case.. you fall in love with the people who add to your over-all happiness.

Just work on getting rid of your unrealistic relationship expectations and it's actually really easy to love women. They have many complimentary qualities and have the potentially to greatly increase a guys quality of life and overall happiness (if you know how to lead a relationship well).

OmLaLa · 2015-09-24T12:37:37+00:00

Do we still allow ourselves to love unconditionally?

Family, country, dog? Yes.

Women, marriage and the concept of monogamy? No.

EDIT: That being said, please try not to read too too deep into my response, fellas. Believe you me, I know love's a fallacy just as much as any RPer.

Terminal-Psychosis · 2015-09-24T17:44:52+00:00

Love, the emotion, it is cheap and comes for free.

Love, the action, it costs. Make sure you spend yours wisely.

Title	How do RP men love?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	4
Comments	28
Date	September 24, 2015 12:10 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3m6uod/how_do_rp_men_love/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-do-rp-men-love.188909 https://theredarchive.com/post/188909

Comments