New LTR is religious, wants no sex, what to do?

[deleted] · 2015-08-28T09:44:38+00:00

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[deleted] · 2015-08-28T09:39:06+00:00

You don't have a relationship. Get yourself a chick that will bang you

WolfenSatyr · 2015-08-28T14:05:31+00:00

It's not that she doesn't want to fuck, she just doesn't want to fuck you.

Move on.

Archwinger · 2015-08-28T14:53:41+00:00

You didn't know this before making this woman a girlfriend?

Look, the difference between your girlfriend and any other friend in the world is sex. You can watch TV and have conversations with anybody. Even other guys. What makes your girlfriend your girlfriend instead of some guy you hang out with is sex.

Why are you wasting your time with this one woman in a world with over 3.5 billion of them? Is it because you're a loser and she's your only option?

crack_tobi · 2015-08-28T12:14:08+00:00

You are perfect for each other. Marry her have sex ,make a few kids. Trust me i'm a married pyrofox.

fnordsnord · 2015-08-28T15:11:38+00:00

Do not assume you can change her mind. Based on the limited amount of information you have provided I am familiar with this type. It is possible to get into her pants, but she will constantly drag her feet on it even after you are successful. The amount of energy you will have to pour into prying her legs open will NOT be worth the result.

Smile - tell her she is very sweet, but a celibate life is NOT on the table for you. Wish her well and delete her contact information.

You are wasting both her time AND yours.

[deleted] · 2015-08-28T13:03:14+00:00

Why do guys do things like this? You get into an LTR with a religious/party/career girl, and then proceed to bitch about the shit they did when you met them. When plating I can understand not really giving a flying fuck about her, but getting into a LTR with someone who wants something completely different from the relationship as you show a serious lack of abundance mentality. Maybe I'm wrong here.

[deleted] · 2015-08-28T14:12:58+00:00

find a newer LTR

uhmmmusername · 2015-08-28T15:10:30+00:00

Get the fuck out RIGHT NOW.

A relationship goes two way. You give commitment, in exchange for sex. If you are giving away free goods, you are basically admitting that what you are providing has NO VALUE. You are communicating, extremely clearly, that your commitment (and time, and dedication, and investment, and money) have ZERO VALUE. You are doing yourself a great disservice and driving your SMV to hell.

halfunplugged · 2015-08-28T15:19:16+00:00

How are you already in an "LTR" with someone who doesn't have sex with you? I wouldn't even make it to date 3 let alone giving up your greatest asset (your committment) sheesh. you are the furthest thing from red pill

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-08-28T17:02:42+00:00

Bounce. She's taking the one thing she has of value to you and denying it to you.

OTOH, if you plan on wifing her up and getting laid twice a year, in the dark, in missionary until she gets pregnant, then going back on the celibacy plan for three years until she wants another baby, then by all means, marry her.

Oh, and if you think she wouldn't drop those granny panties for Chad, you're wrong.

Sepean · 2015-08-28T09:46:53+00:00

It is clear you have zero game and don't know how to be attractive. Maybe you aren't even physically attractive.

Read the sidebar. Improve yourself. Lift. Hold frame. Pass shit tests. Play dread games. That will raise your SMV and make you attractive. Then she'll want to fuck you (she might still say she's saving herself for marriage, but some LMR techniques will get you past that).

Right now, you are not attractive to her. It is unlikely other girls find you attractive either. You might get sex from them, but once you go TRP and your girls are actually horny you'll see what real sex is.

RedPillJax · 2015-08-28T16:05:57+00:00

What are you getting out of the relationship?

Is she a perfect 10, sweet and submissive, who feeds you, takes care of you, and is generally amazing to be around? Are you also religious and wanting to avoid sex?

If not, I don't really see what the point of remaining in this LTR is, or why you got into it in the first place. I know a guy who loves the fact he's in an LTR with a religious girl and doesn't have sex, because he was abused as a child and has some real intimacy issues. It allows him to work through things at his pace, so it works for him.

That being said, if you want to have sex and she doesn't - why stay?

[deleted] · 2015-08-28T17:31:01+00:00

Maybe dread, but personally I'd next.

[deleted] · 2015-08-28T09:24:43+00:00

Are you looking for a LTR? Does she have all of the required qualities of a good woman by RP standards? Are you willing to tie the knot?

If it is a no for any of the above, find yourself another hoe.

PostNationalism · 2015-08-28T13:32:26+00:00

take it slow, she'll fuck you soon enough

Title	New LTR is religious, wants no sex, what to do?
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Date	August 28, 2015 8:59 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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