Well..RP Confirmed

cmiovino · 2015-07-29T13:55:59+00:00

My biggest evidence came when my 3 year LTR came back from a European trip with her cousin, balled her eyes out, and says her life sucked back home and wanted to 'take a break'. Having been in a similar situation, I accepted it. I went out the next night to the bars and clubs, only to have her messaging me within 24 hours saying it was a mistake. I went back, said I would improve and be a better boyfriend (beta talk).

Fast forward six months later. I find out she met some Australian guy on that trip and has been talking to him via text and Snapchat since. He booked a plane to come to America for Christmas and NYE. She claims she can't refuse him coming now since it's booked and paid for.

Being 3 years in and close with her family, I was told to just sit tight and let her 'hang out' with her friend. I was assured by her he would be sleeping on the couch every night and we would talk about our future after he left. We were both virgins and lost our virginity days before said guy came. After that, we held each other and cried for 24-48 hours straight. I cried because I was losing her and knew it... she cried because she was fearful of Aussie guy not working out and roasting it with me in the process. Later, after finding TRP, I realized this was women's incapacity to love... but only work on emotion to make the 'best choice'.

I had to go through seeing pictures of them in Niagara Falls, at light festivals, Washington DC, and an NFL game together all over Facebook. Then pictures got 50+ likes by her friends and family. Many comments read "Awww, your new man is so cute!" and such.

After 10+ years of horrible times with women, this was the nail in the coffin for me. I found TRP and my entire life made sense finally. Hypergamy clear as day here, the hamster wheels in everyone's head spinning.. especially her family and friends. All my other relationships made sense.. my inability to do well with PUA material, why I didn't have friends, why I didn't have what I wanted in life... everything.

I still waiver from time to time now, but know TRP is true. It's even helped at work and in guy to guy relationships with me. I was a poor poor beta boy. I traced this back to my dad and how I was raised... through that, I came to terms with why I was how I was and where to go from there.

-Petulance · 2015-07-29T12:38:12+00:00

Never spend money just to see a bird.

1NV0K3R · 2015-07-29T13:25:10+00:00

Dated a girl for two years. She was a virgin. We never sexed. Typically nerdy shy nice quiet never do anything wrong girl.

She dumped me. She's one of the biggest whores around downtown now.

C'est la vie.

_Tactleneck_ · 2015-07-29T14:26:25+00:00

"and remember that only you can make yourself happy"

The last part is the single most important thing that "clicked" for me. I always thought if I could make girls happy, they would return the favor by making me happy. Nope, just emotional bullshit. See it for what if is. Love yourself and others will be drawn to you.

AnalLeak · 2015-07-29T14:43:50+00:00

You have to start being sexual asap when you first start dating. It won't work out otherwise.

Knehmo · 2015-07-29T14:57:04+00:00

Goku went through this both times he fought Frieza. The first step is the recognition that chivalry/ concrete codes of duty make you predictable and manipulable. If it somehow happens again, say by Shenron wishing a similar woman (or Frieza) to cross your path , LEARN FROM YOUR PAST. Females (and or Frieza) Always Like To. Maintain frame; your point of view is your world. Do not allow them to symbolically (or literally, in the case of Frieza) blow up your world. You will not always have Whis (TRP) to pull a deus ex machina and if you just wish for things to be the same by using the dragonballs, that selfish wish risks making GT canon. I wish you the best SonGokku.

MeatCurtainRod · 2015-07-29T15:33:22+00:00

I have been reading TRP for a while but have I been implementing it..maybe like 30%

In all honesty, that speaks for almost everyone else in TRP so no biggie. Welcome to the club.

I'm just a 20 year old dude.... She was 3 years younger than me, so I was 20 and she 17.

First of all, let me preface my response by saying; I don't condone the act of courting minors. So this response does not pertain to you, but is relevant for the sake of TRP.

To answer your question, yes, if you make the mistake of not showing your sexual interest, then she will forever treat you as a friend. If anything, it sounds like she was literally waiting for you to make the move. All that BS notion about asking for permission will instantly dry up any vajayjay in a 1 mile radius.

Keep in mind that women will literally invite you to her home of provide situations for "things to just happen". Ever hear the phrase "come to my place and whatever happens, happens."? Ya, women get off on the notion of spur of the moment. A whole vacation would have been the perfect time to have dozens of these spur of the moments. She is resistant at first, but that is because she wants you to take charge. She gave you plenty of opportunity. You failed, so she is moving on. You should too. And in case anyone is thinking about "well that is rape". No it fucking isn't. Rape is a totally different context. Know the difference. This is about a man being a man, and a women hoping she would be swept off her feet the way Chad would other women.

btharmony · 2015-07-29T13:35:45+00:00

My experience with this: Dated a girl in hs who my fat bestfriend was obsessed with, but could never get with. This girl started shit testing me by talking about my friend and hanging out with him without telling me. We never got past kissing, and a week after I dropped her ass, she had sex with him. I was experiencing emotional turmoil for the longest time. Anyways the point, from the get-go, you should not go into any interaction with a female with optimism regarding an LTR. AWALT so they only seek gratitude in the moment from the guy who is giving them what they want. They like to be treated like shit. Hence, the RP ideology of not giving a shit what women think is actually what brings them closer to you. Point in case, this is a great experience for you and it will hurt in the moment, but down the road you will use this with your future encounters with women.

ALPHAapprentice · 2015-07-30T01:01:28+00:00

I wasn't aware that TRP even existed at this time, but when I first looked back after swallowing it, it was a huge realization for me.

When I was 17, I dated a girl on the dance team from our rival high school. A HB 7 that had many orbiters at the time. I thought I hit the jackpot. However, due to my lack of experience with girls, I went more Beta than the Greek letter itself. Not going into details, let's just say that it was cringeworthy. During the summer, she got a job as a lifeguard where her co-workers were older than me and were the "bro" types. I go over to her house one day and she starts messaging one of them on her Facebook right in front of me. My stupid self thought, "he's just a co-worker, no big deal." A couple of days go by and she breaks up with me. In about four days, she tells me over Facebook that she likes one of her co-workers and asks me to come over and see them. Here is where another truth hits me.

After my breakup was public on social networking, this other girl (We'll call her Amy), a tall black HB 7.5 with long legs and great ass, and I start texting each other (I later found out that she had like me). When my ex asked me to go meet her and her new crush, I said, "Can I bring Amy along"? She fucking lost it. "Who is she? You're such an asshole for already finding someone else! Shouldn't you wait a bit"?

I learned three RP truths:

Beta behavior repels girls like insect repellent on ants
A girl will leave a guy for a better one without any regrets if she gets the chance.
If you're placed in the Beta role in a girls' head but demonstrate successful, Alpha behaviors/results (in this case, finding another girl), she will hate you.

My ex is now pregnant at 20 and basically ruined her life by doing so. I, on the other hand, am in my third year at university with a 3.83 in a STEM degree, part of multiple organizations and have gained over 10 pounds of muscle ever since. Keep on improving and don't stop.

4juice · 2015-07-29T20:41:46+00:00

Love is blind.

Merwebb · 2015-07-30T03:54:39+00:00

From like 2 weeks ago im seeing red pill examples everywhere.

In the job, i see not so smart but very sexy women get their way around, earning higher income than hard working men. How? By friendzoning and being bubbly with socially awkward engineers, by seeming "available".

Whenever i hear a love song or i see a movie, thats society's way (matrix way) to make you into a battery. Be prince charming and defend these capable, responsible and manipulative female adults from the world and themselves!!! You cannot live without them!!!! Society needs your extra work to fill a house for a woman that will never love you because you are a doormat!!

Whenever i talk with women and realize they all have the same script about being women and victimising themselves. About needing marriage. About how man are not to be trusted and need to be on a leash.

Whenever i lose weight and people treat me differently than when i gain weight. When i dress nice and people treats me differently than when im skating around all dirty and sweaty.

Its everywhere. But it makes it easier to take advantage of stuff and situations if you know how, so there is that.

TheKorken · 2015-07-30T11:43:45+00:00

stories of moments when RP just clicked for you

Everything made sense all of a sudden. I used redpillstuff and had instant success.

evilquesadilla · 2015-07-29T19:28:16+00:00

Knew the ending before I even finished reading. This is extremely typical women behavior, expect it.

No one can ever understand women, not even women. But what we can do, is pattern recognition. This is a pattern that will be repeated over and over again.

When dealing with women, it's okay to give them what they want, but you have to make sure you are getting what you want too. The best outcome is you both get what you want. The second best outcome is no one gets what they want. The worst outcome is what you've just experienced.

So what to watch out for is to never over-invest, which is what you did. Anything you do before you get what you want is considered a gamble. While you can't get anywhere without placing your bet, it has to be a bet you are prepared to lose.

This is step one. Know when to stop yourself from moving forward. You won't always get it right, sometimes you'll back off form a situation that could have worked out. But my personal experience is that: First, you don't need to hit 100%, so what if you lost opportunities? There will be more in the future. Second, it's far more common for women to take and not reciprocate, you will have side-stepped more situations like this than lose opportunities. Third, when women want you, they will make damn sure that you know, they will make time for you, they will pretend to like things you like, laugh at your dumb jokes... etc. If things aren't going smoothly for you, it's because they're using you for something else.

This is step one, it's just a defensive measure, it won't help you get chicks, only help you stay out of trouble. There are other things to learn, but they're not complicated, just takes the right mindset and practice.... until you get into a committed relationship, now that, is a total different game and fucking difficult endeavour.

Title	Well..RP Confirmed
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Date	July 29, 2015 12:34 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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