So I met this girl via an app last Friday night and agreed I'd come over to her place. She was meant to be nothing more than a typical weekend hookup (never had issues prior) however I made an idiotic mistake of not wearing a condom the first time we did it. I pulled out of course, but noticed she didn't have an aversion to the semen near her pelvis the way other girls would (red flag 1). She proceeded to give me oral sex, then without my consent went on top of me and went for seconds, at this point I was stressed because I didn't urinate in between so risk of residual active semen was high. However being the idiot I am I just asked if she'd take 'plan B' and after getting confirmation went at it again, pulling out. Since we already agreed on plan B, we had sex about 6 more times in a row without any breaks in between. Afterwards we discussed plan B again and all how dangerous what we did was. Now, it's been 2 days and after asking her if she got the thing she responded with messages that summarize as "oops I forgot, I went out for dinner and slept all day because you wore me out. Don't stress, it's ok if you don't contact me again for peace of mind I will understand, I won't get pregnant plus you're young (I'm 24, she's 32)."

She hasn't been on for about 12 hours and hasn't read all my messages about her genius decision. Some things that worry me:

  1. She complimented me the entire night (you're very tall, you're very muscular, you're very handsome, well endowed, high stamina etc), given her age it sounds like she's evaluating me and happy to have my semen just based on strong genetic qualities

  2. She's on a visa, so might think she can get citizenship by getting knocked up

  3. She's an absolute moron if she thinks she can't get pregnant, and a total dimwit with no ability to remember a simple task

  4. Despite her "I never do this kind of thing" spiel that 50% of girls bother to make, maybe she's on the pill and just doesn't want to tell me.

Luckily I didn't use my real name on the dating site because I like to keep my privacy, but it's still an emotionally stressful situation. I definitely don't want to bring my first kid into this world via some crazy girl. I've never stuck my dick in 'crazy' as far as I'm aware but something definitely seemed 'off' about this one after it all, and the bizarre behavior of taking it so loosely.