Should I be concerned with my LTR?

jakospades · 2015-03-26T07:22:37+00:00

STOP EVERYTHING!

do you have plates? if you don't have plates you would know that 4 months is a plate.

you really want to know the difference between a plate and a possible LTR...she's checking your phone not the other way around, you fucking chick.

JetteAuLoinTRP · 2015-03-26T10:04:04+00:00

he is a type that my gf wouldn't go for as far as I know

Please note : girls don't have "types". There is no such thing as standard of beauty in chicks, and they might get fucked by the ugliest dude as long as he is smart enough to give her tingle (take that with a pinch of salt, of course. Just understand : it's not because a guy is "not her type" she wont be attracted.)

For the rest... Yeah, dread game should do the trick. Maybe mention a girl you know and how you have good time with her, from time to time. Start texting one of you girl friend and don't show them text to her. Play her game, hold frame, things shall work out on their own.

realdev · 2015-03-26T10:26:49+00:00

Very. Phone protection is the clearest sign of an affair.

balalasaurus · 2015-03-26T05:28:44+00:00

You can't confront her on something you only have a basic hunch on. Not only does that betray insecurity on your part but it makes you look like a snoop. If you're worried about her, a little soft dread will do the trick. Be more friendly and flirtatious around women. Let her see that you're a man with options. Don't get in her face about it but do enough to make her work. You're the prize remember.

GC0W30 · 2015-03-26T12:23:46+00:00

Let her fuck this dude.

Why do I say that?

Because you have no use for a girlfriend in college. She'll keep you from meeting other bad-ass chicks. She'll distract you from the real Mission, which should be getting good grades and networking with folks from your industry, your professors and guys you go to school with who are likely to be important in your career later.

I hope this guy has an 8 inch hog and gets the chance to plow this bitch tonight.

Seriously, don't do LTRs at your age. Unless you're at a college with only one girl, there's NO point.

Archwinger · 2015-03-26T10:56:50+00:00

You finally have your first girlfriend ever, in college? I'll bet she knows she's your first girlfriend ever because your dumb ass told her. Are you at least fucking her daily? I'll bet you leapt at the chance to lock her down in a relationship as soon as you could instead of fucking her non-exclusively for as long as possible while working on other girls.

Why aren't you the one whose phone is blowing up with texts from other prospects? Why do you feel this way instead of her? If she's a lying slutbag, can't you just go fuck one of the ten other girls who want you? Doesn't she know she's replaceable?

kingofpoplives · 2015-03-26T13:27:33+00:00

Anyways while studying yesterday I noticed her receiving texts from a guy and she wouldn't open them when I was explicitly able to see.

Sketchy af. She's cheating, or seriously thinking about it, bro.

Do I confront her about this, and if so HOW without looking like a snoop?

She's YOUR girl. You have the right (nay, duty) to call her on whatever sketchy shit she does. You have the right to snoop if you feel it's necessary.

MC_riide · 2015-03-26T10:31:02+00:00

Remember. You don't give a fuck.

She can text whoever the fuck she wants. You're also going to text whoever the fuck you want. You can talk to the barmaids and any other female that you may be able to jump on, and over your current one. Hide your texts, and openly flirt anyone, around her. It goes both ways.

Sure you may really like this girl. We all sometimes let down our guard internally. But externally, our frame needs to be solid. Just get talking to other girls and get some plates spinning.

yoyoz69 · 2015-03-26T13:06:27+00:00

Apple introduced recent contacts for the app switcher (aka multitasking menu) in iOS 8, useful for quickly calling and texting your most-contacted friends and family.

Good luck with this.

Source: http://ios.wonderhowto.com/how-to/remove-recent-contacts-from-iphones-app-switcher-ios-8-0156435/

BrunoOh · 2015-03-26T13:42:57+00:00

he is a type that my gf wouldn't go for as far as I know

You can't know that. All he has to do is to tingle her the right way.

I_trp · 2015-03-26T15:01:05+00:00

If you weren't threatened by this guy, (or anyone else she may be texting) you wouldn't be snooping through her phone. That's insecure beta behavior. Feel free to keep dating her, but keep on hunting for someone else. Flirt. Work on your game. Having her in the wings will give you the confidence to do just that. But most importantly, focus on the long game - your education. You won't get a do-over on that.

Title	Should I be concerned with my LTR?
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Date	March 26, 2015 5:12 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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