I hang out with this friend often. A year or two ago, he picked up his first girlfriend ever (he was 20 at the time). Fast forward to now, the group of us slowly realized she is insane, Portuguese daddys girl & spoiled to the max despite being 5"3 and pushing 150lbs. My friend has been lifting for two years at least, so he is in decent shape. She has been used to being babied & being handed things most of her life, so as soon as Beta friend attempts any alpha moves, she constantly whines & nags him until he always inevitably capitulates.

Shit this bitch has done:

-Called/texted every one of our cellphones 15 times within a few hours asking for friend to call her or talk to her.

-Every day she demands he call her, and when he does near the end she'll always try and get future commitments from him to pick her up the next day from work (she has no vehicle) and to hang out. This usually translates into him hanging out with us, and 20 minutes in getting up & leaving suddenly to go pick her up, often bringing her uninvited to gatherings. He has gone over many times at midnight to her place to "talk" when she was having one of her drama-nights (5/7 days a week at least) despite him having to goto work at 6am.

-Brings personal family drama to the social gatherings. 9 times out of 10 shes frowning or has some kind of attitude.

-Has a greatly inflated ego/sense of SMV. She literally thinks she's extremely attractive & could seduce anyone in our group of friends if she wanted. She's actually low SMV.

-Fakes "thyroid" injuries like saying she feels sick or "passes out" in order to re-focus beta friends attention on her, or to get her & him to leave together earlier. i.e. acts like she blew her knee out while playing soccer, then 2 minutes later running around again like nothing happened. Most recent incident was last weekend. Group of us were going to go out clubbing after meeting up @ a lounge. She fakes feeling sick, fakes being "passed out" in beta friends car, so he leaves with her.

-Has showed up a couple times uninvited to beta friends place.

-Typical manipulating the situation & baits beta friend with removal of potential sex in order to get what she wants (which is usually to hang out or go over to beta friends place). Beta friend takes the bait hook line & sinker. I.e. "I wanted to hangout tonight. But now idk"

-Encourages beta friend to use any of his friends to use their cellphone (he doesn't have one) if it means the difference between not talking & talking. Literally read a text that said "Use john_b's cell" when told the cell he was currently using was almost dead.

-Saying her life is hard etc despite living in decent house, paying no rent, working full time, has water/heat/food etc.

-Clingy to the point where every single time he rolls up with her in his vehicle, she's sitting directly beside him, clinging on to him (old 70s car with the front bench seats).

After the night she texted/called my phone 16 times looking for beta friend, I finally had enough and told her never to text my cell again, that I barely knew her & that beta friend is a big boy who can get his own cell if he wants to talk to her. He previously would borrow one of ours every single time despite saying he doesn't need one.

Up until this point I've tried to stay out of it but now it's reached a boiling point where he's technically "broken up" with her but still remains FWB. Every time they are together she's constantly touching him & acting as if she is his girl. At a small party a few weekends ago, beta friend took his shirt off & poured chocolate sauce on his chest & laid on a massage table. A group of girls surrounded him & were about to go in for a lick, but there's the psycho bitch who stands directly beside him, touching him as if claiming him as her own.

I want to smack beta friend upside the head for being such an insane pussy & putting up with the abuse, but he is also stubborn. He claims since I've only had a few LTRs, "I don't know shit". Keep also in mind he was raised by a single mother.

Do you think I should have a serious 1 on 1 talk with him? Or is the best thing to do just let it be.

We all feel he is selling himself short, as someone with higher SMV such as him (2+ years lifting, stable career, own place, own vehicle) can get more. The daddys girl admits to only liking guys with muscles, and her previous few boyfriends were such. We feel she doesn't deserve a man who lifts in any respect because she does not bring anything of value to the table in personality OR looks.

p.s. Known Beta friend since I was 5 years old (25 now). Feel like hes a brother. Feel like it is my duty to at least voice my concerns if reasonable.