So my friends are in town visiting, and we all decide to go out. haven't seen these guys for ages, so this weekend was all about having fun and catch up on good old times.

So we hit the local bar. Play some dart, catching up, having a laugh about the past. Friend 1 telling us about his plans to propose to his girlfriend which he meet during his year stay in Thailand where he worked , and Friend 2 sharing about being a new dad, and life back home in general and whats been happening in good old little town we all where from.

As its getting late, we head out, and see this massive crowd at this local club. They had some renovation done, and its was a free entry opening night, so we decided to check that out for couple of hours before heading home.

We head there, go to the bar and just observe and try to talk, but with the loud music its not possible. So sitting at the bar, and observing what the club feels like after my RP conversion, on the other side i spot a group of 2 girls, with 3 guys. Buying them drink, standing there as a guard. Oh my, looks like the Band of Beta bucks have parachuted into this club. I just felt sorry. They where not enjoying themselves. All their attention was on how to get the girl to like them, and make sure they where not without a drink. All fun and life going on around them, while they all spending cash and time on girls who obviously from the body language didn't want them there, but only their wallet.

One of the girls realized i was starting and she starts looking over my direction. I just give her a blink and turn around. Because tonight i don't have any plans of hooking up. I'm her to have fun, and show my visiting friends a good time. And since both of them are in a committed relationship, looks like we all where on the same boat.

So soon it gets to crowded and i spot some classmates and other friends. I introduce them quickly to my visiting friends, and suddenly we been dragged to the dance floor, dancing out , literately our shoes off.

Was a great night, been a while since i been doing the robot with these guys. Was kind of expecting people to laugh about it, but everyone just made one big circle around, and one by one everyone showed off their Robot dance, and other funny and goofy dance they could come up with. The atmosphere was great, everyone goofing off, having a laugh, and a good time.

Well then this happens. The two girls from the bar suddenly decide to come to where the attention was, and obviously their Band of Beta Bucks followed. Both girls start dirty dancing, and suddenly all the member of the Band of beta bucks start to grind on them. So 3 Beta bucks guy grinding on 2 hamsters? well the picture aint pretty. Swear i could see one grinding on her arm, because there wasn't space enough for him.

Anyways didn't come her to watch 2 hamsters, and bunch of Beta Bucks grinding for approval, so i just went into the circle start dancing, and the mood was back on.

The Hamsters then try to get me dancing with them. I just stop , look at them both, and turn my back into them. Which they didn't like, so one of them push me with her hands. I turn around to confront her, at least ask her what the problem was, but as soon i turn she is all in the background. The Band of Betas are now there pushing me and asking what my problems was.

Usually in these situation, i would had start swinging, due to my temper. But, i felt sorry for them. I really did. Just coming out on a great night like this, where everyone is having fun, and they only been spending great deal of money of drinks, and standing guard for two hamsters who only was using them.

So i just shook my head, and turned around and left the floor. And everyone i was with just did that to. We stayed at the bar for couple of min, and just went out.

Said goodbye to the classmates and the friends. So i decided to walk home with my out town friends, because i lived close by.

Suddenly i see the the Band of beta, coming out and this is where i just felt extremely sorry for them.

One of the girl who pushed me comes out with the bartender, followed by her other friend and the Band Of Betas. She quickly talked to her friend, and then jumped on the cab with the bartender. Didn't even say goodbye to the guys who been buying her drinks all night, and being her White Knight.

The guys started looking at each other, and saw that only one was left. But the 2nd girl was one step ahead of them, so she just walked over to me trying to get away from them, and apologized for her drunk friend. Something with her boyfriend breaking up yada yada. I told her its alright, let bygones be bygones. We started talking quickly, and then the band of beta start turning up. Asking if there is any problem.

The band of Betas now getting desperate. They been spending money on all those two girls all night. And one left with the one who's been preparing the expensive drink they paid for. No way they would be happy with the other leaving with the guy who they tried to start an unnecessary and silly fight with.

She tells them nothing is wrong give me a min, and about to discuss with them if they can drop her since they have a cars . But then i realize its my time to teach these guys one or two about women. So i stop her and in front of them tell her. " Listen i gotta keep going because my two friend her are on visit and they pretty tired. If you want to continue this conversation, you can tag along, there is a coffee shop around the connor we can talk there AFTER i drop my friend back home and make sure they settled".

She asks for my number, and i tell her blank no. I don't know you, and i just don't give my number out to strangers. She grabs my hand and tells me lets go. Leaving those guys.

Oh the sweet feeling looking back and seeing those guys facial expression. I somehow felt bad about the whole thing, but i hope they can take this as a lesson. And learn the moral of the story, which is that they value their self more than those two girls.

Well went home dropped my friends off made sure they where comfortable. Went downstairs, across the street at this late dinner. Had a coffee with her, and talked briefly. She was a alright after getting to know her, but really not my type. There just wasn't much chemistry during out conversation because of some of her beliefs and opinions. So told her that i better keep going, and she says that i could come to her place. Told her that would not be happening because i am not interested in here that way, because she just wasn't my type.

Well since i come to find out that she lives like across town, and she was bit tipsy, told her she could come to my place. Since my roommate is outside the country, and my visiting friends occupying his room since it got 2 beds. she could crash my in couch.

We head to my place, i hit the bed, she sleeps on the couch. Well suddenly she comes into my room to " talk", and one thing leads to another and well yes we end up doing it.

The next morning we wake up, and to my surprise she got up earlier, cleaned the apartment, and made breakfast for the guys and me. Was kinda surprise, because the other night she was telling me she isn't the housewife cleaning and cooking material, because she dosent like it and rather do her own thing, which was the major thing that turned me off. I confront her about it, and she tells me she dosent mind doing it for me.

We have our breakfast, and exchange numbers, and throughout the week lots of the things that put me off during our first night having coffee have somehow disappeared. Her behavior, and some of the bad personality traits which was a surprise.

*The moral i learned from this whole night adventure

  1. Dont go out, for the sole purpose of getting laid. A strip club or a Brothel is the place for that. And you get what you pay for. Not advocating these places, but if you really want to spend lot of cash on getting laid, your chances are better over there. Go out to have fun and good time, because there is nothing more a women wants than a guy who can have fun and great time without involving her. Women don't want what they can have. They want what they cant. Because they know it has a value.

  2. I realized the only advice on relationship my grandfather once gave my cousin who was having a marriage problem, which was " There is no good, nor bad women, its only what you make her be" was on point. And this is when i realized that. This girl might been a hamster or gold digger or whatever she is. But men made her that. Specially beta guys. And when i was having coffee with her that night, she told me not about her personality or beliefs, but what she was programmed to be by the Beta bucks from the bar, or other sad guys who been worshiping her. So women are what you make them to be. Does she look good according to your standard and taste, go for it despite her personality. Put your foot down and show her who is in charge of this ship. Most of them adjust to your standard, but there always are those too damaged with the excess of luggage. They to late to help, just leave to them for the Beta bucks to deal with.

  3. My only and one rule : Value Yourself more than the one you trying to get on with. That was the only rule i took with me going out that night.*

**Edit: I know this sounds to be good to be true. That a one night stand coming to my place cleaning up and cooking and all that as many has mentioned. But fellas. I am glad that you mentioning and questioning me about it. Because i believe it is very important in all aspect of life to question and debate.

The honest opinion i would give in this matter regarding my post is. Do not trust my word. As matter of fact don't trust any word until you tried it out. When you see someone write an experience, do not trust it. Question it and debate about it. But do test it. Find out yourself if it is true. And that is what i been doing since swallowing the pills.

And for those down voting a comment, don't do that. let the person speak out, lets discuss, and lets put our theories into practice. The RP isnt about putting someone down.

As far i am concerned anyone who subscribed to this subreddit is part of the family. So for any post, lets discuss, lets argue, lets share, lets question and most importantly lets learn and lets improve.

You fuckers are like my family !**