It's amazing

red-sfpplus · 2017-06-18T22:20:42+00:00

The only area that I would show concern would be when she asked for the divorce. Was that word actually used?

What were the conditions of the relationship at that time as you leave out a good amount of detail. Does she have family back there she was going to live with?

Women don't drop the D word unless they have another branch to swing to or family ready to pull them back in.

I would trust but verify her actions around this time. If there was any possibility of cheating I would investigate (this is a zero tolerance policy for me) but I can't tell from your post how long ago this was.

If she was going to swing back to family and "figure it out" you dogged a bullet and need to keep getting your ducks in a row.

And yes, the IUD sucks for women. Glad you got it removed. Had my wife take hers out after 6 months of having it in. I could tell immediately.

Edit: welcome to red pill fellow dallas dude.

redandswollen · 2017-06-19T14:20:38+00:00

IUD doesn't stand for Initiate UR Divorce. There's obviously a lot of other shit going on, so try not to blame the marital problems on birth control. It'll help to be critical about yourself and check your ego at the door, Mr Fancy Suits. Otherwise, nice progress

Westernhagen · 2017-06-19T01:38:01+00:00

What bad effects do IUDs have?

DentyneWhite · 2017-06-20T00:41:14+00:00

thats a big shit test and personally Id get ducks in a row and toss her in the street when it suited me best.

Involved father is good. Hope you document all these good deeds and keep that sharp and ruthless (((lawyer))) on speed dial.

I do.

iamtheswoop · 2017-06-18T22:05:36+00:00

Congrats man, it appears you are on the path that all of us on MRP want to be on. Thanks for the great post

dontbedenied · 2017-06-18T22:19:52+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I'm not married, and am increasingly starting to believe that I never will be. But I would like to have a fulfilling and happy LTR at some point in my life, since the few LTRs I've had have been complete disasters. The latest one brought me to TRP. I've been in a bad place since my breakup but stories like yours give me some hope.

SubjectiveCompass · 2017-06-21T18:17:18+00:00

What you've described are side effects because you are doing things differently / better. It will get harder to reach the next level. Don't slack now that you are getting a few good sex events, it will only stall progress, I have been at it for 2 years now and it took 6 months for me to learn that lesson.

Title	It's amazing
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Date	June 18, 2017 8:41 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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