2 months all in RP, All up in the sidebar, working out 4x week, making money, taking care of my shit, dressing to the 9s, focusing on career, social, major improvements for me.

Initially amazed at the massive shift of my dead bedroom into sex 2-3x week. As I keep progressing I'm running into a whole new round of elevated shit tests. She's been getting almost hysterical and crazy about:

  1. All the attention I'm getting & new friendships I'm forming with new women.

  2. She's starting to claim I've been emotionally abusive for the last 15 years. (preventing her from being the woman I want - caring, loving, attentive, very sexual)

  3. Literally freaking out if I don't text, call back within a few hours.

My former beta self dealt with her by letting her run the household & leaving for a few days on fishing camping trips every few weeks and leaving for days to several weeks for work. This has kept us together but hasn't changed the dynamics of the relationship. I guess I know what to do in theory with elevating shit tests...but damn they are getting scary. Crying, yelling, threats, getting generally hysterical . The problem is after a skyrocketing increase in sexual activity she is now threatening lack of sex drive due to all of this. Guess I'm trying to find the courage for the "shits-show" I'm going to endure when I get home because I'm certainly not going back to a dead-bedroom again.

Edit-Update Applied a little comfort to this over the phone "I love you, I got this, Well get through this...blah, blah" Lots of crying and thank you's and promises to change her behavior" Well see, definitely this post helped! Thanks!