MRP newbie - 41 with a wife and two young kids. I am about 6ish months in. Side bar has been read, losing fat and packing on more muscle. Wife is the most plesant she has been in years and the quality of sex is great (more bj's in the last 6months than in the last 6yrs).

Along the journey I have been contemplating my experiences with women. I have always been a bit of a hybrid. Alpha in most aspects of my life (friends, school, work, sports) but completely Beta when it came to women. I think this had a lot to do with being brought up catholic and raised by women. So needless to say, I had no game.

What is the signifigance of this? I have had hot women (HB7+) pursue me at various points in my life. In high school, the hottest chick in my junior class approached me and we started dating. It was fun and lasted for a couple of months. It was like something out of a movie. I was not a nerd but I was also not super popular (but was a starter on the football team). So her pursuing me was a little out of the ordinary.There was one incident in collge where I was "faking Alpha" and got approached by another HB7. We started talking (had just met) and I said "well why don't you just sleep in my bed tonight?" - her response - "okay". I was floored (as I was again faking alpha and did not think girls did that type of thing - go to bed with a guy they just met). My wife (who was a HB7) approached me in college and we started dating. Again - no real game - she pursued me.

I finally realized that all these women approached me because they thought I was hawt (again I was so Beta I had no ideal that I was fit and attractive). There was absolutely no game on my part. My upbringing put pussy on a pedestal. So high that I was scared to "offend" women by persuing them for sex - so I waited for them to persue me. I am good with my life now, but I know that I passed on a ton of pussy in my teens and twenties because of how I viewed sex and women back then.

Why should you give a shit? LIFT. LIFT. LIFT. Women like sex just as much as guys - crazy but it took MRP to help me realize this after four decades of Beta programming. The hotter you are the more they will do crazy shit. Add some game and you've got yourself a porn star (and a vey plesant first mate).

Looks aren't everything, but if you want your SO/LTR to lust after you looks are #1. My wife and I have been together for over 20yrs (marriage + dating). I have been her Alpha Fuck (fucks) and Beta Bucks (feelz). AF me got unsolicited bj's and calls telling me she was naked in my dorm room bed and waiting for me. BB me got..."I'm tired", " In the morning"...if you do "X" we can have sex at some future time. I killed off BB me about two weeks ago. I am working on getting hotter and adding more game everyday. MRP has save my life and my marriage.

TLDR; Lift first - be hawt (even with no game) and women will lust for you. Game is secondary.

Edit: Another note for self-therapy. Also realizing that as a teen and in college I did all this shit for me - not for anyone else. Not to impress a girl. I was on MY mission. Fuck!