A brief field report to share with some of the newbies how easy it can be.

Kids did all of their chores this morning, wife and I were out running some errands and I decided to get the kids Taco Bell for lunch. I'll do this for them once a month and they had certainly earned it today.

Placed the order, paid at the first window, pulled forward to the second window and the young girl at the window asked "any sauces with your order?" I replied "mild, please." She asked "exactly how many do you want?" and I said "exactly 7.4." She smiled and laughed a true laugh (throwing her head back to reveal her teeth).

My wife in the passenger seat said "I think she liked your joke," to which I responded "of course she did." This turned wife on a little bit and while we were waiting for the food she began rubbing my bicep and tricep on my right arm. We got the food and headed home. Upon emptying the bag we found 7 sauce packets and then one extra. On the extra one was written ".4" along with a smiley face. This drove my wife crazy (in a good way) and she has been all over me physically since then.

Simple and effective. Notably, this is nothing out of character for me. This is just me living life and having a good time with those around me. I am the prize, I act accordingly.

Sauce photo here

Analysis

My frame is one that uses humor. My wife responds positively to this, and other women do as well. In this case the drive-through worker showed positive signs that she enjoyed my benign joke (my humor is often sexual but not always). So much so that she made a further attempt to insert herself into the joke by leaving something in the bag that I would find at home. If you build a positive frame women will naturally be attracted to it. This will in turn cause your wife to be more attracted to you. It doesn't hurt that in this report the female showing interest was likely 17 years old. Preselection occurs when multiple women are interested in a man. This may be a purely physical attraction, but it can also occur when they find themselves being drawn to your frame. If another woman finds value in you, your wife will find increased value. You are the prize, act accordingly.