I've been internalizing TRP for about a year now but I still believe have a long way to go. Maybe I'm just hard on myself.

Anyway, yesterday my wife was sitting in the edge of the bed and I walked over to her and made out with her for maybe 30 seconds. I pulled my dick out while she was still sitting on the edge of the bed and I was standing in front of her. Obviously I wanted her to give me a blowjob. She got the message but she awfully pushed me away and say "yeah, right". I was pissed but I definitely didn't show it.

I smirked as I walked away to occupy myself with something downstairs. She ran up behind me and grabbed my arm from behind and asked where I was going. I told her "downstairs". She said "can you fill this cup up with water?" (She likes to have something to drink after I cum in her mouth. I filled it up and she blew me.

How did I handle this? I feel like me having to get her something to drink first is kind of like choreplay/covert contract kinda thing but I'm not sure. I honestly don't mind doing it but if it's considered choreplay or something like that then I obviously want no part in it.

What do you think of this and how can I improve?