A brief background:

  • Married 15 years with three kids.
  • I make around $140,000 per year.
  • I found TRP around January and am in-process of digesting it.
  • Bedroom has dramatically declined since January.
  • Sex averages once per month or less.
  • We have done marriage counseling and individual counseling.
  • We swing - but always together.

I had the typical BB marriage that so many guys fall into after marriage. I knew something was wrong, but couldn’t identify it until finding TRP.

My frame has been growing stronger and stronger over 6 months. Unfortunately, anything that does not go her way she feels is an attack – or she claims I am emotionally abusive.

She declined sex again yesterday and is constantly distant.

She signed up for an event. I am sure she will want me to go with her. I don’t want to go but I know that doesn’t matter - I need to maintain an alpha frame regardless of my feels.

What are the experienced Red Pill thoughts on me going to the event?

I expect some push back from the swing thing – Obviously I have left out a bunch of details to avoid a wall of text. If you have questions just ask.

UPDATE based upon some questions: I found TRP in January/February. I started working on frame and identifying shit tests. I have been adding more and more TRP to my life. I screw up on occasion and if it's something I messed up - I apologize to my wife, but only for the part that I messed up.

UPDATE -- It turns out she is not really concerned if I go to the event. Shit test I guess.